"The three outlooks don't agree, so we must leave!" A man in Heilongjiang suddenly lost his job at home, and his wife began to do things

Marriage is one of the basic needs of human society. It symbolizes the deep integration of two hearts, and is the sublimation of love under the law and social norms. It is not only a combination of emotions, but also a commitment of responsibility, mutual support and common growth in the journey of life.

Especially in the current society, many young people get married because of love, but they often ignore the complexity of reality. They expect marriage to bring happiness and satisfaction, but feel helpless and disappointed when facing the cruel reality. This has led to the breakdown of many marriages due to their inability to adapt to reality.

Just like the following couple, they got married because of love, but started to divorce because of reality.

In Heilongjiang, a woman said that she had just filed for divorce, not because her husband cheated, nor because she could not stand her husband's domestic violence, but because she felt that the three views were incompatible, she started to divorce. It was a small thing brought by me, but after careful understanding, divorce became shocking.

According to the woman's social account, when she was 19 years old, she met a man and then decided to get married. After marriage, she gave birth to two daughters and a son, and got married because of love. Moreover, the husband was young at that time, and the business was still very big, so the family didn't have to worry about trivial things.

During this period, the husband's character and temper also began to expand, saying a few words about women from time to time, and then began domestic violence against women. With men making money at that time, more and more families could not do without men making money, so women once had patience.

However, when the woman was 35 years old, her business suddenly went bad and her money became less and less. The frequency of men at home is also increasing, but they still do nothing all day long, and rely on previous money, that is, lying flat playing mobile phones and eating snacks.

The woman looked in the eyes, but could not bear it. He thinks that although his husband has not cheated, and there is no domestic violence at present, and he has washed his underpants for himself, and his salary was once handed over to him, but now he feels that the three views are not compatible. He has no choice but to recall the sadness of these years, and resolutely proposes to divorce.

In real life, whether marriage is really the tomb of love has always been controversial.

First of all, we need to realize that love and marriage are two different concepts. Love is an emotional connection, while marriage is a legal and social agreement. In marriage, two people need to face various challenges in real life, such as economy, work, family and so on.

Secondly, marriage can make the relationship between two people more stable and in-depth. In marriage, two people can establish deeper emotional ties, and understand and trust each other more. This stable relationship can provide two people with a sense of security and dependence, thus making love more lasting.

Finally, marriage can also allow two people to look at their feelings more maturely and rationally. In marriage, two people need to learn to respect, communicate and compromise with each other, which are the key to maintaining feelings. Through these learning and growth, the love between two people may become more profound and stable.