According to the traditional concept, the deep feelings between husband and wife are formed after a long time of living together. However, in modern society, marriage is challenged by various factors, especially money and infidelity.
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Many marriage crises are often related to economic pressure and infidelity. When the family's financial situation is tense or one party finds the other party has an affair, the marriage is easy to break up, and children are often the innocent victims of such a break.
Loyalty is one of the most basic expectations in marriage, but in a social environment full of temptations, some people may ignore this and pursue temporary happiness, thus hurting their partners.
Recently, in Shenzhen, Guangdong, a woman cried in the street. She cried desperately, "My son is only three years old. How can you take him away so cruelly? He is my only support."
According to the woman, her husband had other women outside and now wanted to take her son away from her. This is an unacceptable blow to any mother.
She recalled that she and her husband had known each other for 11 years, and they had been in love since high school. Although she met with resistance when she got married, she married him without hesitation.
With joint efforts, they established their own business in Shenzhen, bought real estate and vehicles, and gradually settled down. However, as husbands are getting more and more busy working outside, their communication becomes less and less, leading to the intervention of a third party.
She had forgiven her husband's infidelity many times and hoped that he would return to the family, but finally he chose to leave and began a new cohabitation with other women.
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The woman felt extremely painful and regretful, but she was most worried about her son's future. She is unwilling to give up her son, even if it means that she must endure the current predicament.
However, her concession did not change her husband's attitude. He even took the woman home, tried to take his son away, and filed for divorce. Faced with such a situation, women feel helpless and hopeless.
"Why do you treat us like this?" She cried and asked her husband, "The child is our bone and flesh. How can you decide whether to leave him or not on your own?"
This tragedy reveals some serious problems that may occur in modern marriage, including infidelity, property struggle and the struggle for child custody. It reminds us that marriage needs the joint efforts of both parties to maintain, and once problems arise, appropriate solutions should be sought to reduce the harm to children.
Due to the crowd of onlookers at the scene, citizens with a sense of justice criticized one after another, and the strange woman left the scene in dismay, so the woman was able to keep the child, and she held the child tightly.
After the event was exposed on the Internet, a large number of social netizens talked about it. Some netizens said This is the nature of a man. When the feelings are good, the child will be brought by whoever is born. When the feelings are bad, the child is his. It has nothing to do with women.
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Such a statement is obviously biased. It does not deny that there are immoral men, but it should not knock over a boat of people. After all, such people are only a few and cannot be generalized.
As a man, we should deeply understand that women are not unable to earn money, but are hindered by life. They should be respected if they give up their original life for their family.
The profile also shows that both men and women should not easily give up their jobs if they want to maintain a stable position. Not earning money also means that they have no right to speak and are easily rejected by their partners.
If the other half has a good sense of responsibility, he or she will not care about these things. It is not easy to be considerate of each other. He or she understands that the husband and wife pay differently, and the value of a person should not be measured by how much money they earn.
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However, this is just an ideal state. For many ordinary couples, if their parents can't help them, most of them take care of their own children, it will test the tolerance of the other party.
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