Parents hope that their children will get married early. After getting married, they will urge their children to have babies early. This is what many parents do after their children get married!
Young people are under great pressure. Apart from their parents urging marriage, it is normal for them to be urged to be born after marriage. However, for young people, they don't know how to refuse this kind of thing. Sometimes their parents will explicitly say, and sometimes they will use various ways to hint
Children don't want their parents to worry about it. After all, the pressure of having children is very high, which not only delays time, but also affects work. This is the main reason why young people are unwilling to have children. They think it is troublesome to take care of children and raise children!
In Zhejiang, a man took his wife home, and his parents warmly welcomed them. After having enough food and drink, the man took his wife upstairs to rest. But as soon as they entered the room, they were embarrassed by the scene before them
When the daughter-in-law turned around, she found her mother-in-law standing at the door, smiling and looking at them, and then left with profound meaning. Her eyes seemed to say, "The next thing is up to you, you can do it."
The daughter-in-law's eyes were helpless. She stood there and didn't know what to do, but her mother-in-law's eyes were clearly urging her to marry. The woman bit her lips and seemed to be thinking about what to do and whether to have a baby. The daughter-in-law stared at the bed and found that the wedding room had been rearranged
When the daughter-in-law saw her mother-in-law leaving, she said shyly to her husband, "How can you live in this room? You can live by yourself." The husband laughed beside her
Zhejiang: The mother-in-law urged her daughter-in-law to make a big move when she gave birth to a baby. The daughter-in-law was embarrassed when she saw the bed sheets. The camera turned to high energy. The quilt cover was changed to bright red, and it was specially customized. The wedding photo of the woman and her husband was on it. The most prominent part of the quilt cover was the wedding photo and the four characters "early birth and precious child"
The woman who fell in love went to live in another room, but her mother-in-law came out and said, "The quilted room is empty, and I have torn down the quilts. Only this room can live in." The mother-in-law was very thoughtful, which was a drastic move. She also studied the art of war in order to hold her grandson
Some netizens said that it is very common for parents to hasten the birth of children now, because young people increasingly do not want to have children. After all, there is a lot of pressure. Even if parents help take care of them, they will also be distracted, and the pressure of more people will be greater than usual, so many people are unwilling to have children
Others say that parents just want to enjoy the happiness of their family, while children are not filial enough. Obedience to parents is also filial piety, and children do not consider their parents' feelings, which is also wrong
Da Fu's viewpoint:
Having children is every couple's contribution to the society. Many people do not understand this truth. Of course, we should also understand young people. If young people do not have such great pressure to survive, they will also be willing to make contributions, but young people do not follow their heart!
The main problem is the housing loan, car loan and betrothal gifts. If there is a reward for having children, it is estimated that many people will be willing to have children. After all, this is also a continuation of the incense business
So someone suggested that one child should be rewarded with one house, two children should be rewarded with two houses, and more children should be rewarded with more rewards. If this solves the basic problems of food, clothing, housing and transportation, young people will have no worries about the future, and their desire to have children will increase
It's a pity that such a good thing can only be realized in a dream!
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