My sister Xiaowan cried with me late last night“ My boyfriend doesn't care about me at all. He just sleeps when he finishes, regardless of my feelings! ”“ No cuddling or cuddling! ”
Listening to Xiaowan's crying and the snoring in his voice, my heart is also very uncomfortable.
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01 Difference in physiological cycle
For both men and women, the sexual response cycle is divided into four different stages, Excitement period 、 Platform period 、 Cake nesting stage 、 Regression period , but this stage is not the same frequency.
Women's response cycle is longer and men's response cycle is more rapid, resulting in a "time difference", which is the main reason for the conflict between men and women.
Boys only need to experience Stand up → biu → retreat , a closed cycle is completed, which is fast and clearly spaced.
The process of girls is relatively slow, and there is a long process from the excitement period to the cake nest period, which requires constant stimulation to reach the peak.
Generally speaking, this process is like climbing a mountain peak. Boys can climb up the mountain at one go and then go down, while girls prefer to enjoy the scenery along the way slowly.
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02 The price of apricot is different
How many sisters are cracking and have been rejected by their boyfriends/husbands on the pretext of "being tired of work" and "wanting to sleep"?
This is because men's fast-paced physiological weeks lead them to end belching more quickly, and correspondingly, pay less for sex.
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The difference in the physiological structure of men and women also makes it easier for men to clean up, and because of the existence of condoms, some people even tie a knot and throw away their heads before sleeping (not recommended!!)
However, women cannot achieve such freedom. Women will have different feelings before, during and after the belching, and it is also troublesome to clean up after the belching.
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Most boys will fall asleep after the event, and the rest can only be borne by women alone. I think this is really unfair!!
03 Traditional Ideas and Social Culture
Having said so much, women are not valued in the process of belching. In fact, the root cause comes from differences in concepts and cultures.
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This phenomenon is particularly obvious in the eastern countries. The male dominated society, in which men dominate the outside world and women dominate the inside, forces the subject of Ai Ai to be only men, and women's feelings are infinitely reduced.
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However, in our society, conservative ideas are still very serious, and women's happiness is not paid attention to, largely because they do not understand women's physiological structure and sexual psychology.
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In fact, it's not difficult to improve this situation. The most important thing is to tell your partner what you really think. Maybe he doesn't love you, but just doesn't know these things.
A good apricot life means that both husband and wife are satisfied, not only one person is happy, But if you communicate with your partner and he still says he doesn't care, let him get his feet wet!
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