Author: Wen Qiusheng
Original articles, plagiarism must be punished
01. Introduction
On the way of life, getting older is something that no one can stop, but you can choose how to go through life.
When you are old, you should learn to manage your interpersonal relationships. Don't let yourself live like an island, lonely, and unable to feel the joy of life.
Zou Taofen said: "Friendship is the most valuable thing between heaven and earth, and sincere friendship is the greatest comfort in life."
To be kind to others is to accept happiness for oneself. Your efforts will be rewarded.
When people get old, they should "manage well" with these people in time to avoid suffering in old age.
02. Neighborhood relations, enrich your old life
In the Name of Family, Ling Heping and Li Haichao live upstairs and downstairs. Ling Heping is a policeman and is very busy with his work, so his son Ling Xiao has been taken care of by Li Haichao.
He also often goes to Li Haichao's home to get a meal. Especially after divorce, his relationship with Li Haichao is better.
Two people take care of each other and become each other's comfort. Guarding the children, supporting each other and fighting against the wind and rain.
When they grow old, their children are also old. They sit together, bickering and chattering, discussing how to solve some problems in life.
Although they are neighbors, they have become friends and brothers.
In your old age, get along with your neighbors and learn about each other. You can play cards, play games, or get together for a meal.
As the saying goes, "A close neighbor is better than a distant relative."
We get along well with our neighbors and have a care in our daily life. Having dinner, drinking tea, playing chess and talking together will add a lot of fun to life.
If you have a good relationship with your neighbors, support and respect each other, you will have more color, energy and warmth on your life.
03. Be kind to your lover and ensure the quality of life in your later years
Tasso said, "Everything paid for love at any time will not be wasted."
When people get old, they no longer yearn for the outside world, but want to maintain a peaceful home.
It doesn't need too much excitement. It's very happy to have someone you love with you.
In old age, you can have dinner and chat with your lover. I was thirsty at night. Someone helped me pour a glass of water. If he is not feeling well, he will worry about you and really care about you.
He has the same emotions as you. Understand what you think, take care of each other, and you will find that life is more beautiful.
Don't make your lover angry, say more sweet words and do more things to make him happy.
Because, in this world, the lover is the person closest to you. Between you, support each other, the home will be complete.
The happiness index of old age will be higher if you have a lover to join hands with.
04. It's your way out to have a good relationship with your relatives
There is blood relationship, and the connection between them is inevitable, and they will get closer together.
Relatives who share the same ideals and three outlooks should walk around and help each other. They can help you share your worries and help you think of ways when you encounter difficulties.
Park Dafan said: "Always cherish your relatives. Only they are sincere to you, and they will tolerate you and cherish you.
They will slowly accompany you to grow old, and other things related to you may be just a little flower in your life, which will become foam after it blooms. "
Relatives, accompany all the way, spend a long time with you, and know each other's roots. It will be easier to get along with each other. It's OK to say what you want.
Get to know more about their relatives, visit their families and improve their relationship.
If you manage the relationship well, reciprocity is needed. In this world, there will be more people who care about you.
05. Message from Autumn
When you are old, you should learn to be kind to others.
There are delicious and interesting things to share. Recommend to relatives and friends, or invite them to experience.
Don't be too indifferent to your lover, usually accompany him more, talk about some interesting things, and amuse him.
Don't neglect the communication between relatives for various excuses. Even if they are related by blood, if they don't move around, they are not very different from strangers.
Giving more love to others and giving more to others seems to be a loss, but in fact, it is the seed of love planted in everyone's heart. When you encounter difficulties and crises, more people will come out to help you.
When people get old, a lot of laughter around them is a blessing.
About the author: hearing the sound of autumn, living by words. Autumn wind boiling rain, a glass of sake, a couple of stories, on the lonely road with you.
