It takes time and energy to maintain a friendship. There is no pie falling from the sky in this world. So if you want to maintain a friendship, you must pay something for it.
When men and women make friends, they should maintain a certain degree. If you are just a friend, beyond a limit, our relationship will inevitably and irreversibly change, and it is too late to regret. How good your relationship is, you can't do these things.
Help her solve her emotional problems
No matter how good the relationship between you and your opposite sex friend is, you should never help her solve her emotional problems. You are just a bystander in the matter of love. You only need to comfort her when she is unhappy, and accompany her when she is lovelorn, without you interfering with her and her boyfriend.
If you handle it well, she may not really thank you. Maybe her boyfriend will be jealous of you, and then you will be in trouble. If you don't handle it well, you may be hated and your friendship will end. To avoid these things, you must not help her solve any emotional problems. There is no real compassion in the world. You have a good relationship with each other. You can't fully understand her. Don't help her on emotional matters.
Keep paying for her
If the relationship between you two is only the most common friendship, then keep the relationship and do not cross any boundaries. A friend is a friend. Don't be nice to her. She may be moved, but she will never agree to stay with you because she is moved. In the end, you will become her spare tire.
Some men are willing to devote themselves to a woman and die later. In the end, they can't get anything, and they also hurt themselves all over. So men must not keep paying themselves for a woman. Who knows if you will become a person's spare?
Never give up after being rejected
Some men like to stick to a woman like a dog skin plaster. No matter how many times the woman refuses him, he catches up again and again. Such a man will only be looked down upon. If you want to ask her out, but she has refused your invitation many times, then you don't need to continue.
This proves that she doesn't want to go out with you. Maybe she is in a bad mood. Maybe she is tired. If you disturb her at this time, she will hate you more and more. If every time you invite her out to play, she will refuse you with various excuses, which can prove that she is not interested in you at all. If you keep pestering her, she will look down on you. You can't be friends like before.
In the process of heterosexual communication, even if the relationship between you is very good, you should never keep pestering her, or she will only look down on you more and more, and finally can't even be a friend.
In heterosexual communication, we must master a certain degree. No matter how good the relationship between you two is, some boundaries cannot be crossed. Once you do these things, the relationship between you can no longer be the same as before, even friends can not be done.
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