Filial piety has been the basic moral code of Chinese society since ancient times. According to the record in Er Ya, "filial piety is good for parents." Filial piety culture plays a very important role in the development of Chinese history. Just as the saying goes, "filial piety is the first of all good deeds", the ancients even regarded loyalty and filial piety as human nature, and also regarded it as a symbol to distinguish people from animals. However, in today's society, some people, in order to pursue fame and wealth, regard filial piety as nothing, even when their parents are dying, do not go home to take care of them, which makes people sigh with regret.
If you don't travel far, you must have a good way. The ancients had long known that they should serve their parents with all their heart. Even if they had something to go out, they should arrange everything at home before going out. Even in modern times, this principle is not out of date, and filial piety will never be out of date, especially when parents are old. From our stereotype, people with high knowledge should know more about these principles, which is not the case in real life. Twenty one years ago, Wang Yongqiang, a postdoctoral student in physics at Peking University, went to the United States to study. Later, he lost contact with his family. When his mother was dying, he refused to return to China to take care of her, which made people think deeply.
Wang Yongqiang was born in Changzhou, Jiangsu Province in 1969. He has been very smart since he was young, and his academic performance has always been among the best. Although the conditions at home are not good, Wang Yongqiang's parents are still thrifty for him to study. At that time, it was a very happy thing to be able to study. Many children had no chance to go to school. Later, they could only work as workers and do hard labor. Wang Yongqiang is lucky. He also cherishes the opportunity to study.
In the 1980s, Wang Yongqiang was admitted to Suzhou University, and he also completed his postgraduate studies in Suzhou University. Shortly afterwards, Wang Yongqiang was admitted to the Chinese Academy of Sciences as a doctor of physics and a post doctor of physics at Peking University. In those years, it was very enviable who had a college student, which meant that they could have an "iron rice bowl" in their work in the future. What's more, Wang Yongqiang was a postdoctoral student in physics at Peking University, which was a great thing.
It was originally thought that Wang Yongqiang's admission to Peking University as a postdoctoral candidate would change the poverty situation in his family. His parents also had high expectations of him and hoped that he could live a happy life. However, Wang Yongqiang did not decide to work directly, but went to the United States to continue his studies. It is a good thing to want to rise to a higher level, and his family has no objection, but Wang Yongqiang has been away for 20 years. Since going abroad in 1999, Wang Yongqiang has lost contact with his family. He has never tried to write or call his family, but it is like the world has evaporated.
Guo Qiaodi, Wang Yongqiang's mother, has been worried about him for many years and has been asking people to inquire about him, but without any results. Until 2019, Guo Qiaodi's old man was critically ill. She wanted to see her son again when she was dying. Many enthusiastic netizens took the initiative to help the elderly fulfill this wish after learning about it. Finally, people found that Wang Yongqiang had been working in Atlanta, the United States, and had obtained his contact information. Guo Qiaodi finally spoke with her son. She left a message to Wang Yongqiang via the overseas phone, but Wang Yongqiang said: "I hope my family will not look for him through the media again."
Guo Qiaodi said that he was old and seriously ill. He hoped to see Wang Yongqiang again on his deathbed. Wang Yongqiang refused to go back to China to take care of his mother. He only replied with seven words: "It's hard for honest officials to stop housework." In this regard, Guo Qiaodi and his relatives were extremely disappointed. They didn't expect his son to be able to do such a thing. They haven't heard from him for more than 20 years. Now they have found someone and become strangers. Why is Wang Yongqiang so cruel? When he said this, he also talked about his early experience.
When Wang Yongqiang was in college, due to poor family conditions, the school also exempted part of his tuition fees, and a little subsidy will be given to him every month, which can also help him study at ease. However, Wang Yongqiang's parents asked him for money every month. Because there were many children in his family, Wang Yongqiang understood them and saved some of his living expenses to give to his family. However, Wang Yongqiang's parents began to increase their efforts, even affecting his studies. After graduating from graduate school, Wang Yongqiang was asked by his family to find jobs for his relatives, and the requirements seemed excessive.
In the end, Wang Yongqiang chose to escape. He didn't want to stay at this home anymore, so he lived in the United States for 20 years. "Housework" has troubled him for too long. In fact, both sides have certain problems.
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