It used to be that "women can hold up half the sky", but now it may hold up the whole sky.
When men are still struggling about whether or not to give the betrothal gifts and how much to give, women have made progress to consider whether or not to give men and children.
Today's women can live a wonderful life without marriage as well as men. On the contrary, it is marriage that puts them in a passive position, and hard work can not get any good results.
In this social situation, many girls enjoy being single. However, because women have a natural goodwill towards children, they will yearn for children when they reach a certain age, but do not want to marry, so they have been struggling.
But a strong woman named Ye Haiyang made a bold choice, "As long as children don't love", she spent 500000 yuan to buy semen to get pregnant and finally gave birth to a mixed race baby from five countries.
On the day of conception, Ye Haiyang gathered together to get anesthetics, and witnessed the first step of the birth of the child, which made Ye Haiyang feel like a mother. Later in her pregnancy, she felt more and more maternal love.
As soon as she was pregnant in October and gave birth, Ye Haiyang welcomed her baby daughter. She was afraid that her daughter would feel inferior because of her birth when she grew up, so she prepared a white lie in advance.
Later, though Ye Haiyang was busy with his work, he never forgot to accompany his daughter, She took her daughter to travel around and accompanied her with love. They had a very happy life and hit everyone.
Many people criticize selfishness when the story of Ye Haiyang was exposed. They think that Ye Haiyang has deprived his daughter of the right to have a father, and that it is harmful to her children to let her live in an unsound family since childhood.
In the face of doubt, Ye Haiyang did not defend but used facts and time to let everyone know that he could bring up his daughter well alone.
However, Ye Haiyang's decision is good for her and her daughter, but it does not mean that other people can do it. Therefore, we do not advocate such behavior and do not act impulsively. Families without spouses have many potential problems for children.
What potential problems will families without spouses cause to their children?
1) Children can not get the sound love of their parents
The existence is reasonable. The child is conceived by both parents, so the education problem should be shared by both parents. The absence of either parent may cause harm to the child.
Children who lack of father's love, lack of strength and courage in character Both boys and girls are somewhat feminine, Children who lack maternal love lack delicacy and gentleness.
2) Great economic pressure
Nowadays, it takes a lot of money to raise a child. How many families have parents who are very hard pressed to raise a child by themselves, let alone by themselves. The financial pressure is even greater.
In today's society, it is very difficult for ordinary people to find a job, especially as parents have more requirements, otherwise it is impossible for so many parents to take their children to take delivery.
Many single parents are finally overwhelmed by economic pressure, which not only makes them breathless, but also causes psychological problems for their children.
3) No time to accompany and educate children
Many parents in sound families are busy with work and have no time to accompany their children, especially those in families without spouse. In order to ensure their basic life and children's basic life, they often do not stay with their children.
Even if the children are sent to the elderly, it will have an impact on the children. For children, parents can't make up for it. Children without parents will eventually have psychological problems of varying degrees.
For the sake of children's soul and life, parents should carefully consider, especially mothers should not give up their other half because of a small matter. Of course, if they really feel wronged, they should not compromise. Families with bad atmosphere have more influence on children than those without spouse.
How can parents in couples lacking families try their best to keep their children mentally healthy?
1) Give children enough love
Since it is a fact that a child lacks the love of one parent, the remaining parents should try their best to make up for it, so that the child will not lack love because of his or her incomplete family.
However, single parents should pay more attention to their children when they love them and avoid spoiling them, otherwise they will easily cause more serious problems for their children.
2) Prevent relatives and friends from pity children
In fact, many children in single parent families are mentally healthy, and do not feel different from other children, nor do they feel improper because they lack a parent.
But there are always some adults looking at the children with pity, reminding them that they are different. Many times, children in single parent families have psychological problems, which are caused by some hateful adults.
3) Do not prevent the child from contacting the other parent
Children are not involved in adults' affairs. The blood relationship between children and their parents cannot be cut off. Children should not be hurt because of conflicts between adults. Don't prevent children from contacting with another parent, or it will easily lead to counterproductive effects.
They are both far away from each other, and there will be no so many conflicts if they are not together. If parents always force their children not to meet the parents of the other party, they will be easily resented, pushing their children farther and farther.
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