Dawa is approaching the high school entrance exam. Interest class? Nonexistent, all academic oriented 。 The eldest child applied for chess in kindergarten. The teacher said that this guy had intelligence, but he was afraid of difficulties. As if it had been decided, in the following nine years of compulsory education career, this problem exists in both interest classes and academic studies.
Since then, with the growth of age, they have successively applied for Taekwondo, badminton, calligraphy, scientific robots and other projects; Among them, calligraphy and robotics have been contested from primary school to the second day of junior high school and summer vacation... The teacher in charge pointed out the boss On the body Deadly problem: technically, it meets the current situation self transcend Self breakthrough Ambition ； His Robot production Can compete National Games Top three , but Never play out of order. At present, the best place is the first prize of the provincial contest.
Boss from small to big It's all his own interest , unfortunately Go and ball games They didn't stick to it, At that time, parents did not make efforts to this end, whether it was daily sparring or emotional counseling in the later period. Therefore, when cultivating the second child, I also reflected on it. Now let's focus on the second child!
What interest classes do children take at present?
The second child is currently in grade one of primary school. eighteen I put it in the nursery in six months. It's silly two Years. When they were in kindergarten, neither husband nor wife could pick up their children from school, so they found them nearby two Home institutions can pick up children from school point-to-point. Painting is what she loves, and she has persisted until now four Years; Mental arithmetic is an extra meal I gave her, learned two After three semesters, she became interested in ballet and applied for ballet after repeatedly confirming with her for three years.
She is also interested in roller skating, Lego and piano, but considering that she likes ballet from love to resistance, I seriously doubt that she is a temporary passion, so they were rejected. When I became a primary school student, I put her in custody and put her in a Chinese learning interest class, focusing on reading, painting and calligraphy. She applied for the swimming class in the second semester of Grade One. She wanted it. Considering that there was no sports class in the existing interest class, I agreed.
Grade two plans to try English interest class, eloquence (host) interest class.
Can you arrange it?
The interest class of traditional Chinese studies takes up a lot of time, with evening classes on weekdays and classes on Saturdays and Sundays, swimming classes on Saturday nights, and ballet classes on Sunday afternoons. At present, there is enough time, but considering that 1-2 interest courses will be added to the second grade, it is planned to five The day evening classes were replaced by English interest classes, swimming classes, ballet classes, and the traditional Chinese culture classes were reserved on Saturday and Sunday, so as to try to take children to do a Sunday tour series, such as low-end clocking in the whole city parks, clocking in the corners of the city villages, and so on.
For what purpose?
Children are out of curiosity and love, but adults are more utilitarian. Newspaper painting is to better complete the school's reading, writing and drawing homework; Psychological calculation is to stimulate children's thinking ability; In order to lay a good foundation for the future study of Chinese, the study of Chinese language should be reported; In order to exercise the shape of children, ballet is recommended; In order to strengthen children's physique, swimming is also to cultivate children's ability to save themselves; Newspaper English is to lay a foundation and relieve the pressure of junior high school learning; Newspaper presider / Eloquence, in order to exercise children's ability of oral expression... everything is to enhance self-confidence. However, it seems that parents often attack children's self-confidence in daily life~~~~
Did the child volunteer?
Voluntary is a false proposition. Painting and ballet were both her own initiative and even her strong request. But in the process of learning, she will also have slack mood. Even if she gets a sense of achievement and honor from it, there will be times when she is unwilling to go. However, over the past three or four years, in the process of mutual torture between mother and daughter, she has never been absent from work for personal reasons (except illness). I am very proud of her.
Is there pressure on fees?
The tuition for painting in kindergarten is six thousand and five hundred a year, fifty-four Class *90 minute / Section. Mental arithmetic is similar. Ballet one hundred and sixty element / class hour *45 Minutes, basic shift plan two Class hour, improve class planning two point five class hour. The cost of ballet is still a little high, so I don't want to go there. But for the sake of children, they renewed the fee. Current one-year estimate two About 10000 yuan. The swimming class is run by the school itself, two thousand element twenty Class *90 minute / Section. One year's food included in the Chinese Academy seven Wan, more painful, but our husband and wife can't pick her up from school, and the second child is also a ghost hold Unable to stop, I had to resort to external force, and 70000 yuan was tolerated.
It was said in other posts that one year spent on children's education should twenty Ten thousand, the tuition fee for the eldest is small ten Wan, the second interest class appointment ten 10000... Alas... It will be seven years and ten years if I can eat and drink with it....
When interest becomes a habit
At present, the second child has become a habit of interest courses, and he knows what to do at each time node. As for the new interest class to be added in Grade 2, I also made a plan with her in daily life and agreed to contact English from now on. If my mother forgets, she will be her mother's little assistant and take the initiative to remind her. At present, I will listen to some English cartoons or Chinese stories every night when I come home from the Chinese Studies class, and gradually start to cultivate the habit.
