We are all familiar with the saying that rich raise daughters and poor raise children.

In fact, it is a kind of educational investment and educational affluence; Raising a man from poverty is more a kind of frustration education. A man should be self strengthening, and a boy who has not experienced failure and frustration will not grow up.

Some people say that boys will struggle in the future, and they must know that money is hard to come by; The girl is going to marry, so she must cultivate her eyes to identify things. Don't be coaxed away by a piece of cake in the future. This sentence may be correct in feudal society, but it is not appropriate in today's society. Because in today's society, both men and women (general phenomenon, not individual cases) need to struggle.

Now the society educates children. How to raise them materially depends on their own economic situation. Personally, boys and girls should be rich mentally.

My fish and eggs can be regarded as spiritual, and her following performance can also illustrate this point.

1. Confident and assertive

Yudan was a confident and assertive child since childhood. As for clothes and shoes, she chooses them by herself: from the age of 5, she doesn't choose clothes and shoes by herself. She was a child who listened to and advised with reason when she was young. At the beginning, I would guide and suggest, and when she grew up, she would make her own decisions about the match.

From college to college, she chooses a major: she decides which school she wants to study in high school and which major she wants to study in university. In terms of learning, her requirements have always been higher than ours. For example, in high school, her father and I are aiming at the key points of the district (close to home, and can go to school on a daily basis), her own goal is the key points of the city (not only passed the exam, but also entered the key classes), and the university is only willing to enter the major (she is professional) and the target school.

2. Calm down

I always think her heart is very strong. For example, when I check the results of the college entrance examination, I am very nervous (especially the results of the college entrance examination), and she is very calm; For example, when the results of the college entrance examination came out, I was very upset because she was not admitted to the undergraduate and postgraduate continuous education class because of the difference between the 19th place in the province. She calmly accepted the results and comforted me in turn.

3. Low profile and introverted

This is not only my evaluation of her (she never shows off her achievements), but also the evaluation of many of her teachers and classmates' parents.

4. Low material demand

My husband and I are not materialistic people, which should be greatly influenced by us.

She is now in her sophomore year. So far, her material needs are within our family's economic conditions and have been fully met. Sometimes I "dislike" her requirements are too low; So far, she hasn't compared anything with others.

Others include self-discipline, emotional stability, etc.