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#Let's talk about: what interest classes did your family sign up for children?

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 Qian Duoduo 2023
Qian Duoduo 2023 Qian Duoduo 2023 2023-03-25 11:59 Reading (1791)

What interest classes do children take at present?

The interest class is the result of children's persistent learning and parents' financial investment. Don't envy other people's children? It depends on how much you pay?

Just like my adoptive mother, she envies children picked up by others who can dance and have good grades. But she didn't think about how much she paid for me and what I proposed to learn. She thought it was a waste of money and refused to pay. How could she get anything? She only saw others' good appearance and didn't think of others' pay.

The Big Part

Primary school period of the eldest kindergarten: Learned painting, dancing, small guitar Ukeri, Go, writing (hard pen+brush), eloquence class, swimming.

Only painting and writing are good.

10-year-old The second semester of the fifth grade of Laoda Primary School The boss is very unwilling to make up for English and waste money.

The last semester of the 12 year old junior high school: tutoring English grammar, and later slowly increasing tutoring math.

Senior Middle School Make up Class (Her performance was poor and she didn't want to learn, but she got full marks for Chinese composition and slept in class, which was enough to know that she didn't want to learn).

Few people around me make up lessons in junior high school. My colleagues suggested that I could make up for the math in the first day of junior high school in the summer vacation of Grade 6. At that time, it was too early, but now it is too late. In fact, in the fourth grade of Wa's primary school, her grades began to decline. We should pay attention to why her academic performance declined. The way we adopted is to let nature take its course.

1、 Painting:

Children began to learn in the middle class. At the beginning, they did not have patience. They gave up because of boredom, and then took the initiative to ask them to learn. The fourth grade of primary school began to decline, and they began not to go outside to study in interest classes. Self conscious, will take the initiative to find information to learn painting, like to draw cartoons. Paper has developed into electronic painting.

For children with poor performance, families with good family circumstances can develop from art in the future, starting at 200000 yuan. There will be psychological preparation for failure in investment. Maybe it will also be

2、 Writing (hard pen + Brush characters):

If you want your child to be able to write good characters, characters like people, and characters like people out of society, now it is basically computerized, and it is important to be able to write good characters.

Senior kindergarten class summer vacation, boss six At the age of, I learned writing too early, and I chose the wrong interest class (the first group of new members, whose tuition is not cheap, used to specialize in Go, not professional, so I can't see the results. If I specialize in the art, it is better to find a professional teacher. The first time I chose the wrong school, I wasted money and energy, and finally I chose the place where I learned painting before, which is professional and experienced), Brush and hard pen practice together, hard pen is tired of writing, brush writing, mutual cooperation.

The boss said from experience: "Don't learn it so early. The first grade of primary school is mainly to learn Pinyin. It's not necessary to learn to write. It's not too late to learn it again after the second grade."

3、 Dancing Chinese dance:

Why let her learn to dress with temperament and not hunchback.

Senior kindergarten middle class five I learned Chinese dance at the age of, but my boss didn't like it. I chose the wrong dance. If it was jazz dance, I might like it. It was fun to have classmates study together and have companions. At that time, students were required to have companions for everything they learned. There were more like-minded people. At that time, parents of kindergarten students set up a group and it was easy to find students to learn together.

4、 Little Guitar Ukeri:

Eldest Kindergarten 5 Year old school, This is what I want to learn, but the boss is unwilling to learn. Just find a partner. The final result is predictable: no learning.

5、 Go:

Eldest Kindergarten 5 Year old school, This is the boss's strong desire to study, but I think it is dispensable. The kindergarten has a class every Thursday, and the foreign teachers in the interest class will use gifts to entice children to come to school. At that time, Hou Wa felt that everyone had the mentality that I had to have. It only takes one semester to reach the elementary meeting.

6、 Eloquence class:

Laoda Primary School 6 At that time, the old people in my family had an accident, and no one took the baby with them, which was equivalent to sending them to an evening care, This is very good. It exercises children's memory, recitation skills, and courage to go on stage. Unfortunately, they didn't realize its benefits and only learned about it for one semester. At that time, Hou was shy and didn't dare to speak on the stage. He didn't speak clearly and stammered.

7、 Swimming

You must be able to survive.

First grade of Laoda Primary School seven At the age of 15, he was less than 1.3 meters tall and could not reach the ground. When he learned, he still felt panic. You can just learn breaststroke at the beginning, and then apply for a swimming card to practice swimming movements skillfully, so you don't have to worry about forgetting swimming movements next year. Make mistakes: learn one thing, and then learn another. But at that time, he was eager for success, had money and leisure (the second child had a long vacation), and forced the old university to swim freestyle. The boss was unwilling, and the final result was that he forgot after learning. In the year of swimming, I learned backstroke by myself. Kindergarten children learn things very quickly. They are interested in everything and want to learn everything. Without consolidation, they can easily forget.

8、 Wheel slide:

I just want my children to exercise and sweat more. Walking every day can add another sport besides cycling.

Eldest Kindergarten 4 Year old school, It's OK to learn. The key is to practice more. Don't ask for leave in the process of learning things. It's better to learn continuously. After three days of practice, you can skate directly. Roller skating is about to fall. You can learn how to stand on your own when you are falling.

Can consciously self-study, adhere to the present: painting, calligraphy.

Hou was young at that time. If he had money, he would not have to bear the burden of his family. The money Hou earned at that time was spent by himself, He alone bears all the expenses of the children's interest classes. He thinks that he can learn whatever he wants. The tuition of the boss was cheap at that time. For example, learning to write was the cost of learning calligraphy and hard pen together, instead of the second child learning calligraphy and hard pen separately. The money was double, plus The first child, with great hopes, wants to cultivate her into a talent.

Second Part: Painting, Roller Skating, Writing, Jazz Dance

I Painting: Kindergarten middle class 4 years old

At the age of kindergarten, The little boy likes to fool around. He wants to learn everything when he sees the teacher playing the piano. He has no patience in drawing. The second child doesn't like drawing. He likes paper-cut and stickers, and plays clay painting. He has strong practical ability. The children in the middle class of kindergarten learn things well and have strong acceptance ability. The small class in kindergarten should learn how to dress, tie shoes, eat, wash dishes, communicate with people and other life skills.

2、 Wheel slide: Kindergarten middle class 4 years old

Learning roller skating mainly depends on the weather. I stopped learning for several days in rainy days, so I was lazy and didn't want to learn it, There is no continuity study, so the key to learning anything is to stick to it. After several walks, they all proposed to take a roller skating walk, but they refused. Walking and riding a four-wheel bike, so they learned roller skating. There is no continuous practice, but they are still not able to learn roller skating braking skills. After a long time of practice, they can only walk. The learning ability is not as strong as that of my sister's mastery of skills, and the time of accompanying practice is not as long as that of my sister when she devoted all her time to accompany.

3、 Writing: The last semester of the kindergarten class was 6 years old, which was too early. I just want her to learn how to write her own name. The second child in the kindergarten is basically a painter. I haven't taught her any characters. Our parents are also very lazy. (Recently, I found that the second child uses picture books to read comics, but he is illiterate and can't understand them if he wants to read them. He doesn't like his sister, who devotes a lot of energy to telling picture books. His literacy ability is not as strong as her sister.) He can't read and write, With a sense of frustration and no sense of achievement, it is easy to give up.

My sister's experience said: "Don't learn it so early. The first grade of primary school is mainly to learn Pinyin. It's not necessary to learn to write, and it's not too late to learn it until the second grade." I asked my sister to teach calligraphy and write blackboard newspapers. I was unwilling to teach my sister. My sister disliked teaching, and beat and scolded me. My second brother was unwilling to learn.

4、 Dancing jazz dance: The second child gets sick from time to time, so he can take exercise, In the last semester of the kindergarten, the senior class was 6 years old and liked dancing very much. The kindergarten teacher danced in class and would let the second child participate. She felt very successful. Although the elder sister dislikes the second child, she also knows what the second child likes best: dancing and eating.

Can you arrange it? It's OK on Sunday, and the elderly can stay in hospital without illness, but they can't learn in summer and winter vacation, and no one will pick them up. The boss rides his own bike to go to cram school. The boss doesn't trust the adults at night and needs to be picked up. The second child in kindergarten is too young, so they basically have to pick up and send off.

It can be arranged when the eldest child is in kindergarten. At that time, the elder will also help to pick up and send him off. He will continue to study on weekends and winter and summer vacations.

Since my husband began to feel unwell in the third grade of Laoda Primary School, he began to go to school together with his brother, and then went to school independently. The real lack of time is that my mother can't help when she gets sick in 2021. Without the help of the elderly, I have to rely on myself for everything. The eldest child is independent and can go to school by bike. The second child in the kindergarten is still young and needs to be picked up. The second child and nephew are in the same class at the same age. The LG brothers shoulder the problem of picking up and seeing off in turn. It is estimated that primary school, lunch and evening care are all outside.

For what purpose? Is there pressure on fees? The economy does not allow us to learn everything. We can only choose one or two.

Every parent wants to be proficient in music, chess, calligraphy and painting, but not every family can afford the economy.

The eldest child can be in kindergarten. At that time, there was no burden, no need to bear anything. He earned his own money and spent his own money. The elderly were not ill in hospital.

On the other hand, the eldest child has to take remedial classes. Both parents get sick from time to time, and they are not in good health. They have a lot of money to pay for. They can only choose one or two names. The eldest child will take remedial classes. When the eldest child goes to primary school, they can only choose writing+dancing. Others can only learn from mobile phone videos.

Did the child volunteer? The first grade boss of primary school is unwilling to learn freestyle, and the fifth grade boss of primary school is very unwilling to learn English.

For example, the boss of junior high school doesn't like tutoring, so he should guide her slowly and let her accept it. Now she can't accept tutoring math, but only English grammar.

Senior in kindergarten Second, I don't like writing, but I must learn. It is very important to be able to write a good hand in society. I also don't want to paint. Sometimes I think painting is boring. Maybe the teacher doesn't like the content of what he teaches.

In fact, the key to learning something is to persist. Like the boss, who learns painting and writing together with her, she is now growing fast because of her strong independent learning ability, Will take the initiative to find information to learn.

Writing and painting make her feel successful, recognized, needed and praised by others, making her confident. (The primary and junior middle school teachers have always asked her to draw blackboard newspaper content). She is glad that she learned to write and draw at that time. Now the whole class is beautiful with her writing and drawing. The purpose of the interest class is to let the children start the foundation of their first learning. The final result is to rely on their own constant practice. It depends on one or two hours of learning on weekends each time, I can't learn anything. The key is to keep practicing after class. It depends on time.

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