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You and I are all dust, how to spend our lives | Lead the reader Issue 34

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We are all dust in the universe

The most interesting game in the world (excerpt)

Author: Li Yinhe

The so-called love is to keep asking each other's soul.

In the vast universe, life haunts the boundless sea like a ghost island, for no reason and without sound. Thousands of souls exist in the form of life for a short period of time, and then disappear without trace. It is not impossible that modern science is studying the possibility of the existence of the soul after death, but what does that have to do with this worldly self? Even if it continues to exist in the form of molecules and quantum, it should have nothing to do with this worldly self, at least "I" can no longer feel its existence. Then it is still gone and dissipated for me.

It is in this contingency of life that falling in love with another soul is a contingency of contingency, so it is extremely curious and a precious life experience.

Love is, first of all, a curiosity about another soul. It always wants to keep asking questions about everything about it. Why does it become like this? Why does it attract me? Will it also be attracted by me? Does it like me? Does it like me? Does it love me?

Love is followed by the desire for intimacy. It is attracted for no reason. It longs to be close, to be close again, to be thick, to be rich, to be intimate, and to be one in two.

Love is ultimately a surprise for adventure. Because in a world full of accidents, in a world where almost all people are parallel lines, we encounter a crossing line. At the moment of crossing, we seldom get close to each other's focused eyes in the world, and look at each other hard, as if we want to see the deep soul of each other and see through each other. However, how deep the human soul is, it is not easy to see through it. Although time is limited, people still feel surprised at this moment. The Chinese people name it Fate. It is fate to meet thousands of miles away, but not fate to meet each other.

From "We are all dust in the universe" New Classic Culture 2018 Edition

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About this book

Li Yinhe, Ph.D. in sociology of the University of Pittsburgh, USA, is a researcher and professor of the Institute of Sociology of the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences. His main research fields are family and marriage, gender and sex. Amateur writing novels, essays and poems. He was once rated by Asia Weekly as one of the 50 most influential people in China. After retirement, Li Yinhe lived in seclusion at the rural seaside for six years, concentrating on reading and writing, and his focus shifted from social problems to individual spiritual life. This book is a new essay by Li Yinhe, which contains her thoughts on the nature of life, the value of self existence, the way to make friends, passionate love, lifestyle, art and reading, and presents an independent and free spiritual world of a feminist. This book of mind notes is quiet and beautiful, sober and transparent, providing readers with a detached but not secluded perspective on life, presenting a unique life experience with both rationality and literature.

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For me, love is an immortal desire and a heroic dream of exhausted life

Reader: Zhang Haixuan

Having read Teacher Li Yinhe's "Homosexuality Subculture", "Chinese Women's Emotions and Sex" and "Chinese Sexual Love and Marriage", I was lucky to read teacher Li Yinhe's new book "We Are All Dust in the Universe" ahead of time. This book shows the independent and free spiritual world of a feminist, providing readers with a detached but not worldly perspective on life, It also presents the unique life experience of both rationality and literature and art.

Buddha said that the micro dust crowd is not the micro dust crowd, but the micro dust crowd. Teacher Li Yinhe wrote in the book that "it is too generous to compare life to the transmigration of spring, summer, autumn and winter. It is more like a ephemera that lives from day to day, like the morning dew that disappears without a trace when the sun shines." All people may have dreams, have a distance, or perhaps the youthful spirit has been lost in the ordinary life, but love is still the most interesting game in the world, It is a game between two people with high IQ, extremely sensitive minds and rich and interesting souls.

We often have such a question, What is love ？ Some people say, Love is divided into three levels ， The first level is karma love That is to say, you are related by blood, so you love them; The second level is no love You have no karma with him, but you still love him, that is, the love of strangers; The third level is lovelessness If there is no hate, there will be no love. No love, no hate, no sorrow, no joy. Some people say that when love reaches its peak, they hate themselves for being cowardly. They hate their lovers for being sentimental, hate their enemies for being persistent, and even hate God for controlling everything, so that they can't escape the pursuit of fate. They have to cover up loneliness with inferiority and jealousy.

No matter what kind of love, it is only a matter for you after all. It has nothing to do with others, even with the person you love. In the same relationship, there will always be two or more different stories. Both parties will derive different versions of stories based on their own positions and perspectives.

People often say, "I will always love you."

"How far is it forever?"

"Is it too far to die?"

After your death, you will still live forever.

Lead reader

Zhang Haixuan, who graduated from the School of Public Management of Renmin University of China with a bachelor's degree, was awarded the Outstanding Communist Youth League Cadre of the University. He is now a graduate student at the University of Southampton, UK. Love travel and photography 。

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