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First of all, there is a core logic. If he is passionate, how can he have you; If he is sentimental, how can he only have you.
For any man who is restless, he will not feel satisfied. It only depends on his ability and conditions, and whether he can support his own ideas.
If he pursues a sense of freshness, there are people outside who can make him feel fresh; If he pursues youth and beauty, there will always be more beautiful people outside.
So I hope you start with a question.
Any man who is restless outside marriage is not "unique". For example, when you are with him, the reason why you can get together is not inevitable, but just accidental. Just so you can get into his eyes, just so he is interested in you, just so you can bump into him.
No matter what his needs are, the women who can meet his needs are never a specific object, but a group.
The first thing to exclude is "uniqueness".
In such a case, he is not satisfied with the status quo, even if he has a wife and a "girlfriend". However, his curiosity and taste of new things still made him want to move. However, adults must be firmly tied to the earth by the thin iron wire of strength.
Therefore, due to strength constraints, energy constraints and time constraints, although there are ideas, they can only be ideas. There is no third woman who is willing to give her a chance, or there is no third silly white sweet to let him take advantage.
You see, he has to bow to reality, doesn't he? Not satisfied, not at ease, but had to be at ease. With no choice, he had to compromise to maintain his only relationship outside marriage, otherwise he would have no choice.
02
In fact, this kind of thing also means that low-cost holding is the core link to maintain this relationship.
If he has the strength, there must be more than one. If he does not have the strength, he cannot afford to pay high costs.
For example, when you are restless, bored or lonely, there is at least one person who can give vent to you, which is better than nothing. The most important thing is that he does not have to pay too much for this relationship, or even hold it at zero cost.
For example, she never raises money with herself, nor will it affect her family, nor will she stick to herself on weekdays and fall in love all day and all night.
What reason does he have to give up such an absolutely egoistic relationship?
It seems that he loves this woman. In fact, cheap and easy to use is the essence. Even if we have been together for a long time and become a little tired, we can still keep the freshness after a period of neglect.
When this woman has been labeled "cheap", she is doomed to never get his benefits. Even if the man has the ability, he will also get used to the free relationship without paying. If he is asked by this woman to pay, he will only think in his heart, why not take these payments and find another one.
Of course, it is also possible that there is more than one of them, but you only found one.
If so, the man may be very skilled, because he can not only coax the family around, but also hide well in front of the woman outside.
As the saying goes, there are many old ways and routines. Even if you have something to do outside, you will not be found by the people beside you. You are wiser when you are asleep than when you are awake.
03
In life, we cannot rule out a case where the "Third Sister" is very smart. For example, it really tied his heart, so it seems that there is no doubt about true love.
What is it actually? Not that they love deeply, but that the "Third Sister" is well used.
For example, "Third Sister" never grudges her praise and appreciation; Because I only use him, only when I need him, and I don't stick to him at ordinary times; When they are together, they also know how to show weakness and stimulate their desire for protection; Will give him face, but also against his will to coax him all kinds of fun.
To tell the truth, these are things that "love" cannot do.
Because when you love someone, you will be jealous, jealous, and want to possess. So sometimes, because you love someone too much, you lose the beautiful experience of love.
On the whole, what he couldn't quit was not the person "Sanjie", but the feeling that "Sanjie" brought to him. It seems that he is the beneficiary, but actually? Is using him. Of course, for men, these are not important. They are all pragmatists. As long as their own efforts are controllable and the risks are controllable, they will not go too far to pry into each other's sincerity and psychology.
What kind of feeling can you actually enjoy in this woman is the most important and enough.
In addition.
Nor can it be ruled out that there is a situation where emotion has entered into interests. At first, it was just a connection of freshness and passion, but coincidentally, under the chance of coincidence, interests were hindered. In the end, he had to go against his original intention to deal with the current interest relationship.
