In the above, I analyzed the problem of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and incidentally mentioned that the relationship between sister-in-law is also among the three difficult relationships. In fact, the relationship between sister-in-law is more difficult than that between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law still have some care. The sister-in-law, if good, is a sister-in-law, if bad, is an enemy, so how to learn to get along with sister-in-law is of great benefit.
Operation method
Like mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, sister-in-law should separate as soon as possible and stay in their respective nests, so there will be less things to do. Otherwise, they will stay together with high eyebrows and low eyes. In case of red faces, they will be difficult to get along with in the future.
It's better to let the husband deal with family affairs. After all, they are brothers, more or less not so serious. If there is anything difficult to deal with in time, you can go back to discuss with your wife, so as not to make a big face.
The communication between sisters in law should be moderate, not too frequent, and they should maintain a respectful attitude in ordinary days, so that although the relationship is not particularly close, it is not too distant.
The sister-in-law should be recognized correctly. After all, two people are not related by blood. If you take it for granted that they want to be like their own sisters, it will often backfire.
You should help your sister-in-law warmly when they have something to do with each other. They must know that you helped each other. This is also what I often say about saving for feelings. The other party will repay you after a long time. But don't keep this payment in mind to avoid feelings falling apart.
The sisters in law should never speak ill of each other to others, especially their mother-in-law. There should be no airtight wall. If it reaches the other's ears, it will cause the other party's dissatisfaction with you and damage the sister-in-law relationship, but it can be told to the husband.