The standards are as follows:
 1、 When the parents divorce, the children during the breast-feeding period generally live with their mother, but if the mother is not suitable to live with her children, she can live with her father at the age of.
 2、 The issue of the ownership of the custody of minor children after the breast-feeding period shall be settled by both parents through consultation. If the consultation between both parents is invalid, the people's court shall make a judgment based on the rights and interests of the children, the upbringing ability of both parties, the upbringing conditions and other factors.
 3、 Since minors over the age of 10 usually have a certain ability to distinguish and judge, and can express their own wishes, parents should consider the views of the children over the age of 10 when they dispute about their children living with their father or mother.