The custody right of Yu's child is generally settled by both men and women through negotiation. If the two parties can't solve the problem through negotiation, they can bring a lawsuit to the court. The court will make a judgment according to the conditions of support, educational background, age of the child, and whether the husband and wife have special circumstances that are not suitable for raising children. Specifically, the court will comprehensively consider the working hours, economic income, housing conditions, time spent with children, whether family members can help take care of children together, educational background and other information of both men and women. The special situation here refers to one party's long-term domestic violence, abandonment and abuse of children, or its own drug abuse and gambling habits and persistent indoctrination.