Your situation is as follows: children whose parents divorce should be raised according to whether they are adults but not adults. They can also be divided into those who can leave their parents or those who are breastfeeding. For children who have mothers to support their fathers, they can leave their parents with economic subsidies. 1. Parents should negotiate with each other to decide who will raise their children. 2. Court decisions should generally take into account the impact on children For a child who has grown up, both parents should negotiate with the child to decide who the child should follow according to the child's wishes.
 Adult children can live in the parents' side. You should negotiate with the parents' side, because it is the parents' property. You have no share
 Property problem: you have no right to own property unless your working salary is with your parents, or you have no right to divide the property of your parents except for the property that your parents have agreed to give you. I don't know! Come on, you are an adult, learn to be independent!