If both parties want to have children after divorce, what should they do? The husband and wife can negotiate first. If the negotiation fails, the people's court will decide. The court generally makes a judgment based on the principle of "being conducive to the healthy growth of children", and the law also stipulates several situations that can be decided who can support them:
 （1） Children under the age of two usually live with their mothers.
 （2） For children over two years old, priority can be given to one of the following cases:
 1. Having undergone sterilization operation or losing fertility due to other reasons;
 2. The change of living environment is obviously detrimental to the healthy growth of children as they live longer;
 3. There are no other children, but the other party has other children;
 4. The children live with them, which is beneficial to their growth, while the other party is suffering from infectious diseases or other serious diseases of long-term infertility, or has other circumstances that are not conducive to their physical and mental health, and is not suitable to live with their children.
 5. The upbringing conditions of both parents are basically the same, but the situation that the children have lived alone with their grandparents for many years, and the grandparents or grandparents require and are able to help the children take care of their grandchildren or grandchildren can also be used as a reference condition for the court to decide the attribution of upbringing.
 （3） In case of a dispute between parents over the age of ten over a minor child living with his or her father or mother, the views of the child shall be taken into consideration. If you want the custody of children, you can collect some evidence that is conducive to fighting for children.