According to the above, first of all, determine whether the husband's infidelity belongs to the fault behavior of caring for the innocent party according to the law, The court will consider the influence of the cheating party on the marriage and divide the property fairly on the basis of taking care of the woman
 3、 The standards of divorce compensation for infidelity After collecting evidence proving that a spouse has infidelity, you can file a divorce lawsuit to the court and ask the fault party for divorce compensation. The following are the standards of divorce compensation for extramarital affairs: divorce compensation for extramarital affairs includes two aspects: material damage compensation and spiritual damage compensation
 （1） Material damage compensation includes direct material damage such as expenses for collecting evidence of bigamy, prosecution fees, attorney fees, etc
 （2） Since there is no clear standard for mental damage in China, there is no clear standard for compensation for mental damage suffered by divorce due to extramarital affairs. In practice, many people still want to know about compensation for divorce due to extramarital affairs because of the increase in the probability of extramarital affairs. They need to determine it according to the following standards:
 1. The extent of mental damage to the innocent party of extramarital affairs can consider the extent of mental injury and mental pain suffered by the victim, such as whether there are emotional disorders such as anger, fear, anxiety, depression, sadness, etc; Whether physical illness is caused by mental and emotional damage; Whether mental depression and trance affect work and life; Whether there is mental disease, etc. Since the damage results in physical and mental aspects of people, medical units can be entrusted to make corresponding judgments when necessary
 2. The specific adultery circumstances of the wrong party of extramarital affairs, such as bigamy, are more serious and harmful than adultery. The circumstances are bad and adultery is relatively light
 3. The degree of fault of the wrong party in extramarital affairs. For example, whether the behavior of the wrong party and the third party has seriously affected the life of the innocent party
 4. Other relevant factors, such as the length of marriage of both parties, the length of marriage of both parties, the feelings of both parties after marriage, and the contribution of the innocent party to the marriage life, should be considered as compensation factors. In practice, whether men or women cheat in marriage, they can be identified as being wrong. In this case, if they divorce, they need to make corresponding divorce damages to the other party