The Supreme People's Court has stipulated that when hearing divorce cases, the people's court should properly solve the problem of child rearing in the light of the specific circumstances such as the ability and conditions of both parents to support their children, in order to help their physical and mental health and protect their legitimate rights and interests. If the divorce party wants the custody of the child, it can start from the following points:
 1. Take more care of children before divorce to increase the feelings with children;
 2. If both parties have separated, it is better to try to live with children;
 3. If both husband and wife are busy with work, it is better to let their parents take care of the children;
 4. If you have bad habits, you should correct them in time;
 5. If you don't have a job, you should actively go in and find a job with acceptable income. But one thing is not to hurt the child's feelings. Do not deliberately change the child's lifestyle suddenly. If the child has reached the age of 10, respect the child's opinions, and do not blindly fight for custody to hurt the child's feelings. After all, the child is still the child of both parties after divorce, and the party who does not raise the child still has the right to visit; After all, after the child is 18 years old, the child can voluntarily choose which party to follow. In a twinkling of an eye, the child will grow up, and it is meaningless to mention the custody of the child.