1. If you find that your spouse begins to show cold and violent tendencies, you should never make a scene at any time. It will backfire, and you must keep calm.
 2. Talk. After preparing for a calm mood and analyzing all the reasons, you should take the initiative to talk.
 3. Persuasion. The loss of feelings makes persuasion extremely difficult. It is impossible to move a determined partner with past love, family, parents, children or even property and reputation.
 According to Article 13 of the Anti Domestic Violence Law, victims of domestic violence and their legal representatives and close relatives can complain, reflect or seek help from the perpetrator or the unit to which the victim belongs, the neighborhood committee, the village committee, the women's federation and other units. After receiving a complaint, reflection or request for help on domestic violence, the relevant unit shall give help and deal with it. The victims of domestic violence and their legal representatives and close relatives may also report the case to the public security organ or bring a lawsuit to the people's court according to law. Units and individuals have the right to dissuade in time any domestic violence that is occurring.