Human Psychology (1)

Being a mentally healthy person is not only about physical health, but also about mental health. Mental health is an important aspect of modern people's health. So, what is mental health—— Individuals can adapt to the developing environment and have perfect personality characteristics; Moreover, their cognition, emotional response and volitional behavior are in a positive state, and they can maintain normal regulatory ability. In life practice, the basic characteristics of mental health have been achieved by correctly understanding oneself, self-consciously controlling oneself, correctly treating external influences, and maintaining psychological balance and coordination. Now people define the standard of mental health as follows: 1. Have sufficient adaptability; 2、 Be able to fully understand yourself and make appropriate evaluation of your ability; 3、 The goal of life is realistic; 4、 Not divorced from the real environment; 5、 Can maintain integrity and harmony of personality; 6、 Be good at learning from experience; 7、 Maintain good interpersonal relationship; 8、 Able to properly vent and control emotions; 9、 On the premise of not violating the collective interests, it can give play to its personality to a certain extent; 10、 It can properly meet the basic needs of individuals without violating social norms; A person with mental health, whose behavior is coordinated and unified, is dominated by consciousness, whose thought and behavior are unified and coordinated, and has the ability of self-control. If a person's behavior and thoughts contradict each other, his attention is not focused, his thoughts are confused, his language is fragmented, and his work is disorderly, he should carry out psychological adjustment. To be a mentally healthy person, you should be confident. A rose is a rose, and a lotus is a lotus. Just look, not compare. It is most easy to shake our mentality and change our original intention by blindly comparing. The result of comparison is that people are either inferiority or pride. In short, they are mediocre. Once a person has no self-confidence, he will be off the normal track of life. Being a mentally healthy person will appreciate it. Life doesn't have to be perfect, as long as you have a relaxed smile, as long as you have a positive mood, as long as you are satisfied with your practical efforts, you can appreciate others and others can appreciate you. To be a mentally healthy person, you should be reassured. Go wins if it occupies one more space, and loses if it lacks one space. The victory or defeat depends on certain conditions. If you indulge in the words of victory and defeat, you will inevitably form various mental distress. "The opponent of Go hates his guts, but he still loves it.". We really want to win without missing anything. This is the effort of life. Hard work is the true nature of our life. If you give up the success or failure and efforts, you will have nothing in your life at this time. Peace of mind and our goal, peace of mind and hard work is the goal. It is reassuring not to indulge in the words of victory or defeat in vain. We should be a healthy person, and more importantly, a healthy person

Human Psychology (2)

There is a saying in military strategists: "Know yourself and your enemy, and you will never lose a hundred battles." If you want to be successful in fishing, you should also understand the habits of fish. The fish has a relatively developed visual system. Objects on the water surface can be seen at the bottom, so the fisher should pay attention to hiding his body and try to reduce running back and forth; The fish also has a sensitive auditory system, which can hear smaller sounds, especially the foot fish, which is more sensitive to sound, so you should try not to make loud noises when fishing; The fish also has an extremely sensitive side line remote sensing system, which can sense the movement of a leaf falling on the water, so it is better to drop the bait gently. Of course, things also complement each other. For example, the big action of baiting alerted the fish, but it also attracted the attention of the fish to find the location of the bait as soon as possible. In short, when fishing, we should not treat fish as fish, but as human beings, so that we can be cautious and not affect the fishing effect due to carelessness.

Human Psychology (3)

Everyone has what they want to do and doesn't want to be chosen by their parents.

For example, if you want to enter an ordinary university, your parents want you to enter Tsinghua University and Beijing University, and you want to enter a reporter, your mother. In the future, if you want to find a good job, you will be admitted to a good university.

You want to work in Beijing, but your mother let you work in Shanghai.

My mother didn't think of your feelings. She only thought of her own feelings. Because she wanted to be good to you, she wanted you to be admitted to Peking University. If you failed, you can tell your parents not to oppose them.

The feeling of a person is not experience, but what you want to do. This is how a person feels.

For example, I want to be an anchor. My parents and I want me to be a doctor. I can tell him that an anchor can make money. That anchor does not have his own self-confidence. Every anchor will be appreciated, not that every anchor has no one to appreciate his own work.

I hope that every parent will understand what their children want to do. Think about the child's heart, OK?

Human Psychology (4)

When a person is under some pressure from unintentional psychology, he or she will think of something troublesome from beginning to end. I feel that I am inferior to others in everything I do. In fact, everyone is not stupid, so some of them are psychological problems. When I think of those things that are not as good as others, it will slowly lead to misunderstanding between friends. It may be a psychological problem caused by the pressure on one's own psychology; Maybe some writers don't believe it, then why? Maybe you can ask yourself, "Why are there so many thoughts? Others are happy, but I am?" You are not inferior to others. You can ask yourself whether you spend 100000 "why" in these troubles, or under pressure

Only you know what to do. Maybe you can find the correct answer you need in the middle; Maybe it is the unexpected answer of others. There is really no mistake. You need to believe in yourself in everything you do. You don't need those luxury and pity people. The most important thing for a person is to learn to give up. The first step in life is to learn to care about others. But the second step is to think openly, and your mood will naturally improve. You can also find your weakness in some way, and you can know how to persevere in the end and not be defeated by anything... You should also know not to take the college entrance examination as a journey of life, or take the lead. No one has their own ideas, which is not very important, but what is important is friendship, friends, etc. They can help you to move towards the brilliant life path of your own career, so that you can be useful in the world, instead of hiding your expertise for a small matter. Everything will be fine, but under certain circumstances, it is impossible.

There will be some facts in real life. If you don't believe them, you can experience them.

Life is in your own hands, and fate is also in your own hands. Why should you do anything indirectly?

Human Psychology (5)

When a person is under some pressure unintentionally, he or she will think of something troublesome from beginning to end. I feel that I am inferior to others in everything I do. In fact, everyone is not stupid, so some of them are psychological problems. When I think of those things that are not as good as others, it will slowly lead to misunderstanding between friends. It may be a psychological problem caused by the pressure on one's own psychology; Maybe some writers don't believe it, then why? Maybe you can ask yourself, "Why are there so many thoughts? Others are happy, but I am?" You are not inferior to others. You can ask yourself whether you have spent 100000 "why" in these troubles, or in the pressure... What things only you know, maybe you can understand the correct answers you need in the middle; Maybe it is the unexpected answer of others. There is really no mistake. You need to believe in yourself in everything you do. You don't need those luxury and pity people. The most important thing for a person is to learn to give up. The first step in life is to learn to care about others. But the second step is to think openly, and your mood will naturally improve. You can also find your weakness in some way, and you can know how to persevere in the end and not be defeated by anything... You should also know not to take the college entrance examination as a journey of life, or take the lead. No one has their own ideas, which is not very important, but what is important is friendship, friends, etc. They can help you to move towards the brilliant life path of your own career, so that you can be useful in the world, instead of hiding your expertise for a small matter. Everything will be fine, but under certain circumstances, it is impossible.

There will be some facts in real life. If you don't believe them, you can experience them.

Life is in your own hands, and fate is also in your own hands. Why should you do anything indirectly?

Human Psychology (6)

At the funeral, few of his sons and daughters were present, but the descendants of his grandchildren were immature at the funeral. The child even wore bright clothes, and did not install normal traditional funeral etiquette for related condolence activities.

Faced with such behavior of these descendants, some elders have to criticize them. An old man said, "These children are ignorant nowadays. Even with the development of science and technology, the traditional culture and etiquette of our country cannot be discarded. The funeral of the old should be done as it should be, and nothing can be changed." This old man's view has been supported by other old people, and these young people have no further opinions.

In my opinion, with the development of science and technology, some young people are excessively influenced by foreign culture, and there are some signs of losing their traditional psychology. Our country's five thousand years of excellent culture has nurtured many valuable cultural wealth, which should not be lost or forgotten at will.

However, I also see that some young people are working very hard to participate in the work of traditional culture and art without abandoning their traditional mentality!

Human Psychology (7)

Once, my grandfather took me to Yuexiu Park to play, and suddenly found a strange phenomenon: if someone sat on one end of the park chair, another person would definitely sit on the other end of the chair if he wanted to rest; If someone sits in the middle of a chair, few people will sit on that chair. I also asked grandpa why he was so strange, and grandpa said he didn't know. After returning home, I have been thinking: What is the reason? What are those people thinking?

Not only that, I saw that when people queued up to buy tickets, there was also a certain distance between them.

When I grew up, I borrowed a book about psychology in the school library, and one of the books entered my childhood question. The original natural phenomenon is called "human psychological distance"

It says that everyone has a psychological distance. Through analysis, psychologists can guess what those people are thinking; The person sitting at one end of the bench originally only wanted to rest. When another person wanted to rest on the bench, he would quickly observe the person at the other end of the bench. At this time, he would suspect this person and suspect that this person was malicious. For safety reasons, he would choose to sit at the other end of the chair; If a person thought of taking a rest on a bench, but there was a person sitting in the middle of the bench, he would not go to that chair again. He would think at that time: the person who acts like a king and sits in the middle of the chair must be "non good".

This is what I found when I was young; This discovery inspired me to have curiosity and care about some strange things in life, so that you can have more knowledge.