1. The way to make less trouble for others is to solve the problem in your own hands.

2. The way to make less trouble for others is to solve it by yourself. Others do not exist to serve you.

3. Look at each other in the eyes and keep them in mind. When talking, look at the other person from time to time with a little observation, so that you can fully feel her presence in your eyes. Let the other party feel valued.

4. When the other person brings up a topic that you don't want to answer, don't rush to resist, but connect the topic that the other person is passionate about to a very life direction.

5. Dating is dating, which means being affectionate. Eating, drinking and ordering food are all good opportunities for flirting.

6. All these high above, like gods, kings, bosses, and presidents, do not talk to you. On the contrary, only those who will complain to you, treat you as an equal person, and are willing to make friends with you.

7. When the other party is full of resentment, he would rather be a harmless and lovely clown than a brave hero. Because he only needs the "feeling" of confiding in others, not the friendship between life and death.

8. By studying speaking, you will find out more about your relationship with others, what you are thinking about with others, and, most importantly, what kind of person you are.

9. If you don't want to talk in depth, what mines should be avoided?

10. If someone scolds you, you will scold him. This is called a quarrel. When someone praises you and you respond with a compliment, it is called social intercourse.

11. Why didn't Gu Gu think about it before he opened his mouth? Mmm. Maybe it's troublesome to "think about it". Don't think about it easily. It's a pity that she enjoyed the three seconds of relaxation, and her relaxation all weekend ended.

12. You are not the Queen of England. You don't need to disturb everyone when you leave.

13. A moderate amount of provocation can definitely warm up the conversation. Because everyone hopes that their opinions will be valued and discussed, rather than being nodded as yes by a person without principles.

14. Leave the meaningless victory to the other side, and those who know how to admit defeat will speak.

15. As long as you try to channel the other party's emotions, the other party is more likely to treat you as a friend, but as for what you should not say, it will become a handle for him to gossip in the future.

16. "What you are doing" is interesting in itself. Silence is richer and more memorable than chatter.

17. If you meet someone who has a clear sense of love and hatred and asks you to stand on the same front with him, you can only let him vent his dissatisfaction to the fullest. But you should control it. Don't indulge in embellishment. Don't exaggerate to attack others in order to be too good.

18. You are what you say.

19. You don't have to pretend to have depth, as long as you know how to appreciate the depth of others, it is already a virtue.