In one's life, one has to experience many things. Among them, there are many failures. In the face of failure, different people will have different attitudes. When some people hear that they have failed in doing something, they immediately become depressed and abandon themselves all day long; Other people are different. In the face of failure, they always actively look for the reasons for failure and start again.

There is a saying: "Failure is the mother of success. Roman Roland also said:" We should turn grief into strength. Indeed, when we face failure, we must not be depressed. We must learn to smile in the face of failure. Don't take failure as a great event and hate it, because the enemy who hates you will affect judgment. We should take failure lightly. Only in this way can we defeat it. Winning or losing is a matter of routine for soldiers.

At all times and in all countries, there are tens of thousands of people who have faced failure in their life. Some of them faced difficulties and retreated, some made efforts, and some persevered until the end. Brave people win when they meet on a narrow road. Only those who stick to the end have made achievements later, while the other two kinds of people are opposite.

Lincoln, the former president of the United States, is a very typical example. When he was young, he worked as a businessman and campaigner for office. He worked hard for nearly 20 times, all of which ended in failure. But he finally became one of the greatest presidents in American history. In contrast to Lincoln, it was General Xue Yue of the Kuomintang army. General Xue has the title of "South China Tiger" in the national army. He is one of the capable officers under Chairman Jiang. He masterminded and skillfully repelled many Japanese attacks. When General Xue was deified by the media, he was killed by Japan because of his pride. Since then, the South China Tiger has never recovered and has never commanded any decent battles.

No matter how long the journey of life is, we will experience many failures, big or small. Some failures even exceed our psychological endurance. However, we should not be discouraged and admit defeat to failure. That would be tantamount to abandoning ourselves. We should move forward bravely and focus on the moment of defeating or winning, without any distractions. Not only is it cruel, but also too happy will affect our judgment.