The Five Major Problems in Life is a representative work of the famous French Jewish writer Moroa, which covers marriage and family, friendship and happiness, life and death, morality and art, economy and politics. These are the five major problems in life that everyone has to face. This book not only selects the most wonderful words of Mr. Moloa, but also selects the wonderful maxims of many Jewish masters, such as Fromm, Wittgenstein, Kafka, and interprets the five major problems of life that everyone has to face with the most intelligent, humorous, and profound words. Recently, I read this book shallowly, which made me quite aware and write down my feelings in the part that is closely related to the phenomenon in today's society.

"'Marriage is tied to an instinctive system.' The nomadic life of human beings, before the fixed couple life, has had divine intuition, forcing human beings to swear when they are easy to swear for the sake of desire, and they are bound by this oath. We also know that at the beginning of civilization, the so-called marriage was not our marriage today. At that time, there was a society centered on motherhood, polygamy and polygamy. But as time goes by, these primitive forms always tend to guarantee their permanence and protect women from being bullied by other men; Taking care of children and providing for the aged has finally formed this uneven social organization, and the first cell of this organization is the couple. " The author first discusses how marriage should be, explains the reasons why people resist marriage and yearn for marriage by giving examples, and tries to find an ideal model for men and women to get along with each other. In this mode, men will not think that marriage has constrained their freedom, and women will not act aggressively without a sense of security in their relationship. In the thousands of years of cultural changes, monogamy seems to be the most suitable model. "The difficulty of living together often makes the spouse feel extremely surprised. The main reason is that there is a natural conflict between the two sexes in terms of ideology and lifestyle. In our age, people are too easy to ignore these fundamental differences. Women almost do the same research as men; they often perform well in men's careers; In many countries, they also have the right to vote, which is fair. Although this kind of equality between men and women has produced excellent results, men should not forget women's definition of women because of it, saying that she is an animal of emotion and men are animals of action. " Because men and women are born with different ways of thinking and behavior due to their different roles in social life, the contradiction between the two sides in marriage and family is becoming increasingly prominent, which eventually leads to the breakdown of marriage.

In today's society, the disharmony of marital life between husband and wife leads to infidelity and the phenomenon of finding a "mistress" is widespread. Maybe it's a sense of freshness or just a moment of curiosity. People choose to betray their marriage to find a way of life that makes them feel happy. "Marriage itself (except for a few lucky or unfortunate exceptions) is not good or bad. Success or failure depends on you. Only you can answer your questions, because in what mental state you are going to get married, only you know. 'Marriage is not a foregone conclusion, but something to be done by you.' If you want to buy lottery tickets for marriage: 'Who knows? I may win the first prize and be lucky... 'That's in vain. In fact, we should take the same idea as when an artist creates a work. Both husband and wife should say to themselves: 'This is a novel not to write but to live in. I know I will accept the difference between the two personalities, but if I want to succeed, I will also succeed. ' If there is no such will at the beginning of marriage, it will not become a real marriage. " Obviously, many people only see the happiness they can get when they get married and ignore or fail to correctly recognize how much happiness they will lose, so the psychological gap after marriage will provide the soil for the subsequent derailment. Therefore, before getting married, we should fully understand the life we are going to face, think deeply and rationally, and then make the decision whether to get married, so that we can be responsible for ourselves and the other party, and write a more beautiful novel that belongs to life.