The most impressive thing about the Five Rampant Festivals is that "my father" asked "I" to recite the book before going to the Five Rampant Festivals. Many years later, Mr. Lu Xun was still very puzzled: why did my father let me endorse it at that time?

In fact, many people in China must have had this experience when they were young, but most of them have forgotten it as they grow older. When they saw the "Five Rampant Festivals", they would exclaim, "Eh?! It seems that I had such an experience when I was a child!" And now they may treat their children just like their parents treated them!!

Indeed, it is not just someone but the accumulation of Chinese education and culture through the ages that has caused such consequences!! In fact, Mr. Lu Xun's question is not difficult to understand. Since ancient times (especially now), countless parents have expected their children to become successful and their daughters to become successful. They hope their children will play less and learn more, or even study all the time. Maybe many parents don't agree with me, but if you think about it carefully, have you ever had this idea (think about how your children feel when they are playing games)? Of course, there are many reasons for this idea: the country implements family planning, and a couple only has one child. Parents want to give all their love to make them the best. But it was easy to love too much and become spoiled, and the hope and demand for children also rose sharply; Also, children now spend most of their time (mostly) studying, while the rest of their time is sleeping, playing and eating. And this "play" is very simple: games (mainly computer games)!! Some good relaxation, such as reading famous books, doing sports takes up little time, not to mention exercising their self-care ability (doing housework).

And after the implementation of compulsory education to reduce the burden, with the increase of free time, many children with poor self-control became addicted to online games. Parents are even more afraid to let their children play when they see it, but this cannot fundamentally change their children. The root cause of this phenomenon is the poor self-control of children! In addition, the competition is very fierce now, and hard work is the only way out for children. In addition, many barriers (high school entrance examination, college entrance examination, graduate students) are purely exam oriented education, leading most students to either work very hard or make a mess.

After reading the "Five Rampant Societies" several times, I found that Chinese education seems to have bought this seed long ago. This is a kind of ideology that is hard to change. In the article, Mr. Lu Xun thought that it might be the important thing for my father to recite Jianlue. It's nothing, but why did he let me recite it at that time? Lu Xun's reaction at that time was as follows: I seemed to pour cold water on my head. But what can we do? Naturally, I read, read, memorize, and recite. Then he "recited it like a dream."

Finally, after getting on the boat, "I was not as happy as they were. After the boat was set off, the scenery in the waterway, the snacks in the box, and the bustle of the Five Rampage Fair in Dongguan didn't seem to have much meaning for me." Lu Xun's father certainly didn't think of Lu Xun's idea at that time, and now his parents are not? I think parents should think about their children's problems from another angle. Some parents will say: "Oh, why did Lu Xun succeed? It is because he received this kind of education that he will succeed." I think it is because of Mr. Lu Xun's quality of daring to fight against feudal bad ideas that the most important reason for success in the future! I want to tell you that some seemingly correct ideas and behaviors can backfire, and only by thinking from the other's perspective can children's growth be helped.