Parents should not scold their children for their poor grades. The more you scold them and ask them to learn, the less they may want to learn. Even if they do, they will not learn. Therefore, parents should understand their children's rebellious psychology and find ways to let them learn actively and guide them to love reading.
How to deal with children's poor grades who don't like reading
1. Remind children to preview and review. If the wrong questions are sorted out again and written in the wrong question book, parents can also learn in this way. When guiding or checking homework, once parents find any crude and wrong problems, they will correct them in time and let the child recheck. Otherwise, parents can help the child solve the problems together.
2. This has a lot to do with family education. Some parents naturally love learning and drive their children to love learning. Children in harmonious families are generally quiet, do not like fighting, and are relatively focused.
Therefore, parents should take the lead in setting an example and pick up books to read with their children. This is the first and most important premise to guide children to love learning. Even if parents can't read, they should also pick up books to pretend to read in front of children, and children will naturally imitate their parents to pick up books to read.
3. Don't label children. Labeling a child not only refers to often telling others in front of the child that the child does not like talking, and that the child always does not like reading, etc. This hint will play a defining role for the child, which is extremely detrimental to the child's correction of shortcomings, but also refers to the parents' casual preaching to the child, such as: "Can't your child learn?" "Why do you just play?" and so on.
Too much of this kind of talk will make children's bad habits and find reasons for their bad habits. "Because I was born not to learn well", which makes it more difficult for children to get rid of the bad habit of not loving learning.
4. Guide your child to take a small step forward every day. For children who don't like learning, first of all, they should change their habits. Don't demand too much from children in learning. Make a small step forward every day. First, they should cultivate their children's interest in learning. But in real life, when many children don't like learning, parents always want to look for an example to motivate their children.
But when parents look for examples, they don't look at the first child. When they mention that someone has 100 points, that is, the child who is the first in their class exam. In fact, this is not good for the child. Such pressure will make the child feel unable to do, and the child will more often choose to let go of what they think cannot be done. In this way, the child will not learn, Because he found it too difficult. Compared with other children, a small step forward every day will eventually lead to the ideal highland.
How to deal with children's failure to make progress in junior high school
1. Parents use their own initiative in life and work to infect their children. It is reasonable to teach by example. Parents' words and deeds have a profound impact on children. In daily life, parents should complain less about work and life and have more positive energy, which is more useful than preaching a thousand times.
2. Help children set goals and put forward reasonable requirements for children. Although many families now advocate happiness education, happiness is not without principles. Parents need to put forward their own requirements according to the actual situation of their children. It should be noted that this requirement is best achieved by children on the basis of hard work, for example, reading for half an hour every day.
How to encourage children who have no confidence in learning in junior high school
First of all, we should not deny children, let alone attack them. We should listen to their voices, understand their ideas, and then follow their thoughts to analyze problems, let them know the key to learning and being a person, let them feel the importance of learning, and do not blindly scold or deny children. Good children are encouraged.
Learning, playing and health are all equally important to children. For children, play and health are as important as learning. Only with a healthy body and relaxed play can we have the energy to study well. Health is capital, play is relaxation. Parents must understand this, and do not casually scold the child for "learning for me", so that the child can feel care in encouragement.
