The child has already entered junior high school, but he is still lazy, unconscious of work and learning. Parents have also taught the child many times about this. Especially in learning, the child always drags his homework every time. It seems that the homework that will be completed soon will be delayed for several hours. In the face of this situation, parents are also helpless.
What to do when children are lazy in junior high school
1. Accept children and give up anxiety. Laziness, self-discipline and unwillingness to learn should be the nature of children. The child is already in the first day of the junior high school, but still in this state, which shows that the good habits of primary school have not been formed. The first thing parents should do is to accept their children. After all, children are their own good. Although the habits are not very good, they must accept their children from the heart, give up anxiety, and do not let the anxious emotions dominate their actions.
2. Children are lazy when they are in junior high school. If they do not take the initiative to learn, parents should learn to adjust their children's mentality. If a child in junior high school always puts play first, it means that the child has not formed good learning habits and has no goals. Parents should not always put all their mistakes on their children, nor should they always complain about their children.
For this phenomenon of children, parents must learn to calm down and face the reality squarely. Work hard to communicate with children and let them put all their minds on learning.
3. Parents should learn to take advantage of the situation, and learn to really enter the child's heart. Many children are smart and like reading very much. Children have room for growth, and communication with children is the best starting point. When seeing what books children read, parents should also choose what books to read.
4. Parents should set reasonable goals for their children and talk to them about the meaning of life. Parents should let their children know that learning is their own thing, and everything in life should learn to rely on themselves. Children have dreams, and this goal is the driving force for children to move forward.
How to educate children who are tired of learning and lazy in the second year of junior high
1. Parents should guide children to relax, accept these problems, and have an objective and realistic evaluation of themselves, which can help children to touch the sense of powerlessness, find hope and motivation, and then rebuild confidence, and reduce their weariness of school.
2. Children in junior high school seem indifferent to others' evaluation, but they still care about it. As a parent, you should not always belittle and criticize your child. Even if you want to wake up your child, it often backfires and aggravates the child's weariness of school. Therefore, parents should encourage their children to believe that they can succeed.
3. We can no longer talk to children about big principles. In a macro way, we should say that you should learn well and how you want to do, but we should see what the children's specific difficulties are and help them solve them in a targeted way.
4. Lower your expectations and don't immediately think that children can learn by themselves. In junior high school, the time is tight and the task is heavy. You must find a teacher to accompany the children to learn. Only after a period of time can you cultivate the habit of concentration little by little.
What should children learn when they are in junior high school
1. Encourage children to persist. A little taste will never lead to real pleasure. Just like painting, you must practice repeatedly day after day to outline the beautiful scenery in your heart, and the wonderful piano music must be presented through thousands of repeated strokes. The biggest challenge to help children realize the fun is to persist in overcoming all difficulties.
2. Establish children's positive interest points. Many children are unwilling to learn because learning cannot bring fun to children, and the whole learning process seems particularly dull, especially for reading books, which is not as good as the visual effect brought by cartoons.
In fact, in daily life, don't wait for children to understand what they like or dislike before cultivating their children's interest. Parents should take the initiative to guide children to be interested in books.
3. Only by communicating with children more can we understand the reasons why children are disobedient and learning unconsciously. At the same time, we should also analyze whether there are parents' reasons. If parents fail to educate their children properly, there may be opposition between parents and children. Parents should change some inappropriate parenting methods as soon as possible.
