Parents should know why children rebel. Some parents always blindly attribute responsibility to the rebellious psychology of adolescence, but children may not rebel in adolescence. So it's better to let the children understand what they are studying for than to educate them and talk with them. Otherwise, in children's world view, it is natural not to learn. So the effective way to really educate children is to communicate effectively with children.
How to deal with junior high school students who rebel and do not like reading
1. Don't preach too much. In the face of the rebellious children's school weariness, many parents always blame their children for educating their children with incessant preaching, or even beating and scolding. A large part of the reason lies in the parents. In this process, children need to make their own judgments about the world. This exploration process needs to be independent of parents, but must rely on the cooperation and guidance of parents.
2. Be tolerant of children. Children are bored with school and don't want to face school. It is likely that children encounter difficulties in social interaction and learning at school. What they need is reasonable guidance, help, and friends they care about, rather than an opponent who is always right and plays together. At this stage, parents can neither control nor ignore. The important thing is to communicate with children equally as friends from the perspective of children, and treat children with tolerance, respect and support.
3. Create a good learning environment and cultivate children's good learning habits. It is very important to try to give children a quiet learning environment. Some parents don't realize how important a quiet environment is to their children's learning. Others don't pay attention to it. They turn on the TV after dinner and watch the news broadcast all the time. Who knows that children can't read in this environment.
Parents should consciously create a good learning environment for their children. If there is a shortage of housing at home, parents can arrange a learning corner for their children in a quieter place indoors, set up a desk and install a light so that children can study at the learning corner in peace.
4. Keep abreast of your child's learning. Parents should learn to check their children's completion of homework. After school, parents should urge their children to do homework carefully, check homework, review and preview homework. Check the children's homework books regularly to see how much the teacher corrects and scores. If there are many mistakes and poor scores, help the children find out the causes and remedy them in time. Parents also need to see whether the children's homework is neat. This is an important way to check the children's learning.
5. Help children find learning motivation. If children can be constantly encouraged or strengthened in various forms in learning, they will think that learning is a very good thing, and there is no way to talk about being tired of learning. Therefore, parents should try to help children find learning motivation, so that children can feel love, attention and need in learning.
6. Help children build confidence. Many children do not like reading because their learning is not recognized, and their parents do not praise them when their education has improved. They will still let their children compare with others, so their self-esteem has been greatly hurt, and they do not like learning for a long time. Therefore, parents should pay more attention to praise their children, help them to set some small learning goals, divide the heavy learning into smaller parts, and let them improve in stages, so that they can have more opportunities to obtain successful experience and build confidence.
