What to do if the child doesn't want to go to school after primary school

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The child doesn't want to go to school after graduation from primary school. As a parent, don't yell at the child. The child is still young. We can't treat him so rudely, which will cause psychological damage to the child and also aggravate the child's rebellion. Parents should think calmly about countermeasures.

1. Primary school to junior high school is a nine-year compulsory education, and parents must let their children continue to attend junior high school. If children do not go to school after primary school, parents should find out the reasons, find solutions, and do everything possible to mobilize children to go to junior high school. Junior high school is compulsory education, and we can do nothing without going to school now. For the future of our children, parents must do their duty to send their children to junior high school.

2. After graduation from primary school, I will go to junior high school. If I don't love learning, I will go to junior high school. Otherwise, I will have no chance to go to high school, let alone college. Not many children are born to like learning. They need the correct guidance of their parents to cultivate their learning habits slowly and form a learning habit. Then they will adapt slowly.

If you are good at sports, you can go to a sports school, which is relatively relaxed for cultural learning, and excellent sports is also a way out.

3. The rebellious period mostly occurs in children's adolescence. It is the establishment stage of children's self-consciousness, and an important stage of the establishment of children's outlook on life, values, and right and wrong. Children begin to have their own ideas and cognition. So at this stage, children have a misconception that what parents say is wrong, which is why the so-called rebellious period began, Parents should be able to understand their children.

4. The parents' self review, the six years of primary school education, the education of family parents must be a special failure. Six years of family education in primary school is more important than learning education in school. At ordinary times, the ideological and moral education that parents guide and instill in their children is particularly prominent and important. In ancient times, it is not unreasonable to say that the upper beam is not right and the lower beam is crooked.

5. Now the children's living conditions have been very favorable. Parents often talk in their ears about how difficult it was and how hard it was. The children can't understand it if they haven't experienced it. Therefore, it is very helpful for the children's growth to let them experience life in various environments, and let them do it more than a thousand times.

Rebellion is inevitable. What should parents do to accompany their children through the period of rebellion safely

1、 Establish good communication channels. Communication is very important. The most obvious performance of children in the rebellious period is that they do not communicate and are no longer willing to share their lives and ideas with their parents. Therefore, parents must guide children, give them more space to think, turn what they think is the right control into reasonable and gentle suggestions, and let children choose the answers to questions independently, rather than how to let them.

2、 Let children understand that they should be responsible for their own lives. He can choose the result of any thing, but he must ask whether he can bear such a result.

For example, as mentioned in your question, if the child just doesn't want to go to school, then whether he can bear the consequences of this choice and guide him slowly. This is not a problem that can be solved only by a few words. He must give himself time to think, and then slowly instill the serious consequences of not going to school. If he blindly requests, he will be admitted to junior high school, It is also a disaster for the whole family.

The child is still very young. Why don't you want to go to school

There are many reasons why children don't want to go to school. For example, their academic performance is average and they can't get a sense of achievement from learning. It may also be because they are criticized by teachers at school and don't get along well with classmates, which may lead to children's weariness of learning. Parents need to understand why children do not want to go to school:

1. Someone bullied him at school?

2. Did the school teacher hurt him?

3. Bad relationship with classmates?

4. Poor academic performance?

5. When confronting their parents, they need to reflect on whether they are too authoritarian in life.

When you know the reason of the child, you should find solutions to the reason and remember to respect the child (everything the parents do should be transposed, if I am a child and I am so young, I would like to hear what kind of words, think like this).

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The whole poem of Li Bai's Difficult Path to Shu:
Oh, dear, how dangerous it is! It is more difficult to climb the Shu Path than to reach the sky! Silkworm and Yu Fu, what a loss to start the country! Erlai is 48000 years old and has no connection with Qin Sai. There is a bird path in Taibai of Xidang, which can defeat Emei Peak. The collapse of the earth and the destruction of the mountain killed the warrior, and then the ladder and stone stack were linked together. There is a high mark of six dragons returning to the sun on the top, and a reverse wave returning to Sichuan on the bottom. The yellow crane can't fly, and the ape is willing to climb. The green mud is like a plate, and the rock ridges are surrounded by nine turns in a hundred steps. Touch the well, raise your breath, and sit and sigh with your hand.
When will you return to the west? The dangerous road is steep and inaccessible. But seeing the old tree of the sad bird, male and female fly around the forest. I heard Zi Gui crying at night, and I was worried about the empty mountain. It's more difficult to walk on the way to Sichuan than to climb up to the sky, which makes people lose their beauty! Even the peaks are far from the sky, and the withered pines are hanging upside down against the cliffs. Flying torrents, waterfalls and streams compete with each other for more than ten times, which can send thousands of thunder from the cliffs, rocks and valleys. The danger is also like this. Those who are far away from me are so careless!
The Sword Pavilion is towering and steep. One man is in charge of the pass, and ten thousand men cannot open it. The guards or bandits become wolves and jackals. Avoid tigers in the morning and snakes in the evening; Brushing teeth and sucking blood can kill people like a hemp. Although Jincheng is happy, it's better to return home early. It's more difficult to walk on the Shu Road than to go up to the sky. I look west with a long sigh!
Translation extract:
Oh, how lofty and magnificent! It's too difficult to climb the Shu Path, and it's too difficult to reach the sky.
It is said that Cancong and Yufu founded the Kingdom of Shu. The founding time is too long to talk about in detail. Since then, about 48000 years ago, Qin and Shu have never communicated with each other. In the west of Taibai Mountain, there are trails that can be crossed by birds. You can cross the top of Mount Emei from that path. The five heroes of Shu were crushed to death, and the two places began to connect with each other.
There is a mountain top blocking the Six Dragons of the Sun God on the top, and a big river with winding waves emptying under it. The yellow crane, who is good at flying high, is still unable to fly over. Even if the monkeys want to climb over, they are worried about climbing. Qingniling is winding around the mountains, and there are nine turns around the rocks within a hundred steps. You can touch the well reference star and ask people to raise their heads and hold their breath, touch their chest with their hands and sigh in horror and futility.
My good friend, when will you return your trip to the west? It's really difficult to climb the terrible cliff plank road! I saw the sad bird singing on the ancient tree, and the male and female flew with each other in the primeval forest.
The Difficult Path to Shu is the representative poem of Li Bai, a great poet in the Tang Dynasty. This poem follows the old theme of Yuefu and uses romantic techniques to expand rich imagination. It artistically reproduces the dramatic, abrupt, tough, rugged and other spectacular and insurmountable majesty of the Shu Road. It sings about the majesty of the mountains and rivers in Sichuan, shows the majesty of the motherland, and fully shows the poet's romantic temperament and love for nature.

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Pushkin's representative works include Ode to Freedom, Eugene Onegin, Queen of Spades, If Life Deceived You, and Captain's Daughter.
1. "Ode to Freedom" is Pushkin's first poem extolling freedom. It is his earlier anti autocratic denunciation that had widespread social influence, and it is also the reason why he was exiled. The poem was written at Nikolai Turgenev's house. His family lived opposite the Michel Palace where Paul I was killed. They could see the palace where Paul I was killed, so they wrote vividly about the palace conspiracy.
2. Eugene Onegin is a long poetic novel written by Pushkin, a Russian writer. Pushkin accurately summarized the ideological outlook and tragic fate of some aristocratic youth who were influenced by progressive ideas but failed to break out of their narrow circle at that time in Onegin, thus shaping the first "superfluous man" image in Russian literature.
3. "Queen of Spades" pioneered the religious myth theme of crime and punishment in Russian classical literature, and embodied the justice judgment view of primitive religious myth that good is rewarded and evil is rewarded. Pushkin, with the help of his description of the daily life of the upper class society in Battelberg, aims to express the invisible and destructive power from another world behind the characters and events in real life through artistic techniques such as fantasy and dreams, and create a mysterious, strange, strange and transcendental world with modern mythological characteristics.
4. If Life Deceived You is a poem written by Pushkin, a Russian poet, who was exiled to Odessa, South Russia, in 1825, after a conflict with the local governor, and was escorted to his father's territory, Mikhailovskoye, during his confinement. The full text of the poem expresses a positive, optimistic and strong attitude towards life, and because of its kind tone, many people write it down in their notebooks, which has become a motto that encourages them to move forward and never give up.
5. Captain's Daughter is a historical novel reflecting Pugachev's peasant uprising. In history, the aristocratic society and the tsarist government have always vilified Pugachev, describing him as a heinous bandit, while Pushkin embraced the pipa and played a different tune, portraying him as a smart, brave, optimistic, heroic, ambitious and deeply loved peasant leader, At the same time, the work vividly shows the magnificent scale and extensive social foundation of this movement, and expresses the writer's deep sympathy for farmers under feudal oppression and profound criticism of serfdom and patent rule.

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