When children hit their mothers, it shows that there is a problem in family education. It may be that parents are too indulgent to children, which leads to children's lack of sense of boundaries. For this, parents should stop this behavior immediately, communicate with children, tell children that this behavior is wrong, and also provide gratitude education to children.
How to teach children to hit their mothers
1. First, don't fight with children. If a child beats his mother, the mother must remember not to fight with the child, or the child will go farther and farther on this road.
2. It is a wrong behavior for a child to beat his mother. This must be made clear. The family should not make fun of it, let alone ignore it.
3. Don't indulge. If a child beats his mother, the parents must punish the child, such as punishing him or her for standing and not giving him or her food. Never think that a child beating his mother is a small problem, ignore it or let it develop.
4. Don't hit your child when communicating with him. A child is a blank sheet of paper. How his parents treat him, he may treat his parents later, so don't beat the child when educating him.
5. When a child beats his mother, he stares at the child closely and questions the child. If his parents raise him hard, what they get is the return of the mother? The child will gradually realize that it is wrong to hit his mother and stop hitting her.
6. Teach children to respect and be respected. Children must learn to respect others from an early age, and let children enjoy the beauty of being respected, so that children will not hit their mothers.
7. Parents usually pay attention to their words and deeds. As parents are children's first teachers, their parents' behavior directly affects their children's behavior, so the child's hitting the mother may be caused by their parents' incorrect behavior. Parents must review themselves to see which behaviors are inappropriate and correct them.
The reason why children hit their mothers
1. Impact of family environment. One of the most fundamental reasons for many children's aggressive stubbornness is the impact of the family environment. For example, parents are too strict with their children, often beat and scold their children, or use corporal punishment to punish their children, which will cause negative guidance to children.
2. Parents usually spoil their children too much. When children are at home, do parents spoil them too much? Give children what they want immediately. I bought delicious food at home and gave it to the children first. Children have been growing up in love, so they naturally form a self-centered personality, without taking into account the feelings of others.
Many parents think their children are still young, so they need more company and love from us. Therefore, parents would rather sacrifice themselves to make their children live happily. Sometimes parents want to sleep more, but when the child wakes up, they will get up immediately to cook food for the child. They sacrifice themselves excessively and pay too much attention to their children.
3. Children lack space for growth. If anything goes too far, it is easy to cause problems. Some parents love their children too much. Psychologists tell us that parents' attention to their children should be moderate. Don't focus all your attention on children, so that they won't feel stressed. Parents should give their children a wider space for growth.
The child starts to beat the parents to explain what problems the child may have
Lack of emotional expression. Children are used to expressing their emotions by beating others, which means that children will not express their emotions in other forms. Children express their emotions in a single way and do not have the ability to express their emotions correctly. When bad emotions accumulate, the child only knows to splash, cry and even hit others, which means that he will not express himself through verbal communication.
Don't know how to control emotions. Children have no control over bad emotions. They are easy to lose control of emotions. They will vent bad emotions at will and have no concept and awareness of control.
Lack of respect for parents. When children don't respect their parents very much, they naturally have few restrictions on language and behavior, and often allow some wrong behaviors to be carried out on their parents.
