A responsible child will be more likely to be liked by others and gain more opportunities for development. Therefore, parents must pay attention to cultivating their children's sense of responsibility when educating their children at home and help them become responsible people. So, how should children's sense of responsibility be cultivated in family education?
How Family Education Cultivates Children's Sense of Responsibility
1. Let children take responsibility for their own words and deeds. It is particularly important to train children to keep their word when they are young.
2. Do your own thing, don't take care of children. Parents should let their children do what they can as soon as possible. They should not do everything they can. They should do their own things and let their children take on appropriate housework. This is the most effective way to form a sense of responsibility.
3. Parents set an example. Don't underestimate the power of teaching by example. Parents should be good role models for their children. They should have a conscious attitude of being responsible for themselves, their families, their society and the collective. Let children grow up in an atmosphere of responsibility and cultivate their sense of responsibility through subtle influence.
4. Let children do family things. To put it simply, let children participate in family work, let them know that they are members of the family, should contribute to family affairs, and praise their efforts in a timely manner, so that children have a sense of pride. In addition, we should also pay attention to fostering a democratic atmosphere in the family, so that children can also participate in important family decisions, and take corresponding responsibilities for this.
5. Participate in some public welfare activities. It is also an effective way to cultivate children's sense of responsibility by arranging them to participate in some simple social welfare services. For example, simply cleaning the community, giving away newspapers, and teaching children to take the initiative to care for and help others.
6. Parents should encourage their children to consciously care about the development of their schools and classes. Care for classmates and children, cultivate collective sense of honor and enterprising spirit of striving for excellence, and realize that as a member of the collective, one should consciously fulfill the responsibilities of a member in the team.
What behaviors of parents lead to children's lack of sense of responsibility
1. Take care of everything. Children are the little hearts of their parents. They grow up in the palm of their hands. They want to send the whole world to their children. It's just a life of pampering! This excessive substitution and pampering of children will only lead to their laziness. What is more serious is that children lack a sense of responsibility, and they only know how to take but not how to pay for everything;
2. Children always blame for their mistakes, and do not tolerate their mistakes. In real life, parents tend to blame and criticize children who make mistakes at the beginning. Such attitudes and handling methods will only make children have rebellious behaviors, and even choose to shirk responsibility in order to excuse themselves.
For example, if a child fails in an exam, he will attribute the reason to the difficulty of the exam paper or the influence of others on him, that is, external factors. Don't think about your own problems. However, if parents adopt an inclusive approach to deal with children's mistakes, children may feel guilty and silently want to have the responsibility to do well next time, root the failure on themselves, and induce children's sense of responsibility.
What are the obvious shortcomings of children without sense of responsibility
I can't finish my homework on time. I always procrastinate and my parents will not do it without watching.
Toys that have been played at ordinary times will not be put away and discarded in the corner at will.
After dinner, I didn't know I had to pick up the dishes and chopsticks. I wiped my mouth and ran away, always thinking that out of sight is clean.
Don't flush the toilet after going to the toilet, don't know to turn off the light and air conditioner when leaving the room, etc.