Nowadays, everyone can't live without mobile phones. Children are even more forgetful when they play with mobile phones. Parents have quarreled and played with mobile phones, but it has no effect. It is impossible for children not to play with mobile phones, but proper control of play time is what parents should do.
Is there any way to prevent children from playing with mobile phones
1. Keep company with children. In life, we try to do more physical interaction with children and play games with them. When we get off work or on weekends, we can take them outside to have a look or go to some amusement parks to increase their interest in the outside world, instead of indulging in watching TV and reading books at home every day. This is not only bad for his future development, And it is bad for his eyes and body.
2. Specify the usage time of the mobile phone. Children have poor self-control, so they have no control over playing with mobile phones. As long as a "degree" is specified, the agreement between the two parties can be implemented. For example, the range and time period of mobile phone use can be specified, and the homework can be completed for half an hour after completion; If it violates the rules, it needs to pay a certain price, such as reducing the length of the next use of mobile phones.
3. Parents set an example. As a parent, you should set an example. Everything should start from the parents. At ordinary times, you should not play with mobile phones in front of your children. You should pay more attention to their study and physical and mental health. If you have nothing to do, you should chat with them. Then you should take the children out for a walk, exercise, breathe fresh air, and slowly change the problem of children playing with mobile phones.
4. Take measures according to the child's character. If the child is obedient at ordinary times, explain directly to the child why he is not allowed to play with his mobile phone, and the child will certainly understand and comply.
If the child is naughty at ordinary times and is in the rebellious period of youth, then instead of taking tough measures, communicate with him, and take some incentive measures, such as he can buy him something he likes without playing with his mobile phone, which will have a better effect.
The following methods can be used to prevent children from indulging in mobile phones
Properly understand and accept, more in-depth understanding of children, and explore the interest and charm of things that children like. First, you can listen to children's talk, and second, you can also exchange feelings with children.
Agree common rules and tell your child that you understand his normal needs for playing with mobile phones, but don't indulge in them too much. Parents can work together to develop a common rule to follow. This rule should not be unilaterally restricted to children, but should be followed by the whole family.
To enrich children's life, parents can cultivate their children's interests in musical instruments, calligraphy, etc., or play, read, and exercise with their children.
What are the reasons why children like to play with mobile phones
1. Children are lonely. This kind of companionship is not a matter of time, but how parents can meet their children's spiritual needs. Nowadays, the majority of only children are lack of children's partners, and they play alone in many cases. If parents neglect to accompany their children to play, share happiness and trouble, it is easy to lead to a sense of loneliness in their minds.
2. Bad influence of parents. Children are addicted to mobile phones. In addition to the many functions and rich content of today's smart phones, the main reason for their addiction to mobile phones is the parents themselves! Because many parents always hold their mobile phones when they are at home, and children will see their parents playing with them every day, and they will certainly want to play with them.
3. Children lack self-control. Every adult has a hard time controlling what they are interested in. What's more, it is very painful for a child whose parents shout to stop when they are having fun. Most of the time, the more you urge him, the more anxious he will be. The more anxious he is, the worse he can't play. Or the more anxious he is, the more he wants to play for a second. So stop your urging, and help children control time and strengthen their sense of time by means of parent-child agreement.
