Although some children are physically at school, their mind is not on learning, which is mainly manifested in their children's failure to listen carefully in class, constantly making small movements, and not carefully completing homework after class. These problems perplex many parents, and their inability to teach children through beating and scolding will make many parents feel helpless.
Children don't attend school carefully How should mothers educate
1. Change the way of learning. Let children complete the learning tasks in stages within the specified time, and change the timing to quantitative. If the child can concentrate on completing, parents should give him some encouragement and let him rest for 5-10 minutes. Then complete the following learning in the same way. When children can do well, they can gradually extend the time for one-time focused problem solving.
2. Cultivate concentration. Do not interfere with the child to do what he likes. When the child forgets to eat because he is focused on doing his little crafts or observing small animals, parents must remember not to interfere with the child, but wait patiently for him to finish the work. You should know that when children are immersed in their interests, they are inadvertently cultivating their own attention.
3. Try to reduce the frequency of nagging and scolding children. Let the child feel that he is the master of time. The child learns to allocate time. When he focuses on doing his homework in a relatively short time, he will have more time to do other things. When children learn to control their own time, they will feel successful and more confident.
4. Reading aloud helps train attention. Parents arrange a time every day to let children choose their favorite articles to read aloud to their parents. This is a process that makes children's mouth, eyes and brain coordinate with each other. In the process of reading, children should try not to misread, lose or break their reading. His attention must be highly concentrated, and he must persist in this kind of training.
5. Actively communicate with teachers to find solutions. The teacher should be most clear about the children's learning. If parents find that their children are not listening carefully in class, they should promptly ask the teacher about the specific situation. Maybe the child just didn't learn it in time, and didn't listen carefully. If children really don't pay attention, they should first seek help from teachers. After all, teachers are professional in education, so parents can ask for advice modestly.
The reason why children don't attend school carefully
1. Children's attention problems. Children's attention is that their minds will be slowly distracted and distracted when they are learning. Most children will have this kind of situation, but attention is the basic ability of each child. Children have less attention time, so it is easy to show that they will be distracted after learning.
2. Some wrong ways of doting. For example, when a child is doing homework, parents will worry that the child is hungry and thirsty, and they will send water and food. This kind of behavior seems to care for children, but in fact it is one of the behaviors that most affect children's concentration. As time goes by, children's concentration will become very poor, and they can't focus on doing something.