It is a common phenomenon that 11 year old children are addicted to playing mobile games. Children are still young and naturally do not know how to control themselves. Once they have something they like, they will indulge in it and cannot control themselves. Parents should be able to understand it. At the same time, they should train their children's self-control ability to play mobile games reasonably and moderately.
What to do with an 11 year old child addicted to playing mobile games
1. Parents can take advantage of the holidays to cultivate their children's interests and let them devote their time to interesting and meaningful things. You can take more children to do physical exercises, let them exercise with themselves, form a good parent-child relationship, and let children experience the fun beyond mobile phones.
2. Many parents keep their mobile phones and play games, but blame their children for not playing games. This kind of education is not convincing. Parents' words and deeds and family atmosphere directly affect children's behavior habits.
Parents love reading, learning and self-discipline, and probably will cultivate children with the same self-discipline; While parents are keen on playing mobile phones and watching TV all day long, children are naturally more interested in games and even addicted. Therefore, parents should raise their demands on themselves, set good examples for their children, and bring positive effects.
3. To reduce the time children spend playing games, it is best to confiscate their mobile phones and computers for a period of time. The best way to increase the interaction time with children is to pay more attention to their outdoor life. When parents are free, they should take their children out to do some outdoor sports, so as to reduce the time for children to play games at home.
In fact, games are not all bad, which can guide children to play some puzzle games and learn software. Some strategic games can also be played for children, but it is better to play in the company of family members, which is beneficial to cultivate children's intelligence and the relationship between parents and children, and will not let children indulge in games all day long.
4. Don't use mobile phones as rewards. This is a mistake many parents will make, such as taking electronic products as rewards, and taking "allowing you to play mobile phones for more X hours" as the exchange condition for obedience. Often like this, it is easy for children to regard playing with mobile phones as their biggest appeal, but once they form a habit, it is difficult to change it.
5. Make children aware of the danger. Choose the right time to let children experience some changes after they are obsessed with mobile phones. In addition to the physical health aspects such as decreased vision, pain of cervical vertebra and lumbar vertebra, and lack of sleep, children should also be aware of the psychological hidden dangers such as lower learning efficiency, reduced real interpersonal interaction, and irritability.
How to deal with the rebellious and disobedient 11 year old child
Step 1: Understand the needs behind children's rebellion. The reason why the child rebelled is that his purpose was not achieved and was interfered by his parents. So when facing the child's rebellion, parents may want to think more about the child's purpose. For example, some children have been arguing with their parents all the time. The reason is that they didn't play with their mobile phones. In this case, parents can put forward conditions to the child, and the homework is done well and carefully, Can play for an hour.
Step 2: Pay attention to children but don't spoil them. In order to better cultivate children's mental health, parents should pay attention to their children's psychological changes at any time, control their own emotions, do not treat children as emotional trash cans, let them do whatever they can, and encourage them to do more. This will not only enrich their spare time life, but also enable them to gain a sense of achievement.
How to teach children to plan their time reasonably
1. Allocate time according to priorities. The determination of the specific importance is determined by parents and children together, which is not a generalization. Moreover, the importance here refers to the importance of children, not the importance of the matter itself.
2. Plan the time and record the actual time. After doing a good job of analyzing things, you can take your children to do their own daily time planning, and you should also record your own time, so as to constantly reduce the gap between planning and reality. You also need to take your children to review regularly and think about what can be better.