At the age of 18, children are in the rebellious period. At this time, children usually behave with personality. They have their own ideas and desire independence. For children in this age group, parents should change the way they used to educate them, listen more to their children's voices, learn to think in terms of their children, and treat their children's education with more understanding and less criticism, so that children are willing to listen to their parents' suggestions.
How to educate the rebellious 18 year old children
1. Observe communication, and observe how children communicate with themselves. In many cases, parents must get rid of their own role and observe children's rebellion from the perspective of a third party. And treat children from different perspectives and make limited accommodation.
2. Keep calm. Parents who are impatient to deal with things when they are calm should remind themselves to keep calm and wait for their children to calm down before communicating.
3. Although most families are only children now, they can't spoil their children because of this. We must educate children properly and try to avoid spoiling them, so that they can be wayward. When children make unreasonable demands, they should know how to refuse.
4. Try to establish a harmonious parent-child relationship with children, give children a full sense of security and trust, let them feel that parents are for their own good, so as to reduce the chance of rebellion.
5. When a child is interested in something and the content does not affect the child's physical and mental health, parents need not interfere and restrict the child too much.
Main manifestations of rebellion of 18 year old children
1. Challenge authority
Due to the growing psychology in the rebellious period, boys are prone to confront their parents, openly challenge their parents and talk too aggressively, and constantly test the bottom line of their parents, go against the education of their parents and teachers, and get tired of the opinions of their elders.
2. Quite stubborn
During the rebellious period, the boy's emotional reaction was intense, and he had to ask for something no matter how his parents objected to it. Even if parents disapprove of something, they will do it.
3. Impulsive
The boys in the rebellious period are very competitive. If they have a dispute with children of the same age, or something else, once the boys get excited, they are very likely to conflict with each other, or even hit others. This is why boys fight in many schools.
4. Psychological contradiction
The boys in the rebellious period are actually quite hateful. On the one hand, they are eager to be understood by their parents, but on the other hand, they never understand their parents' hard work. Perhaps it is because their psychology is not mature enough. They always make their parents anxious, angry, hateful and loving.
Can 18 year old rebellious children be ignored? Parents of 18 year old children must watch
The children in the rebellious period did not care about it. On the surface, they lost the opportunity to be educated and could not get the truth they should know. In this way, the child's inner cognition will become that all people in the world can take him as the master and let the child do whatever he wants. In depth analysis, parents' indulgence to their children may hurt others in addition to their children.
It is dangerous indulgence to ignore the rebellious children. Not only should we manage and ask questions, but also we need to be more careful and strict in management than in any other period. However, it should be noted that for children in the rebellious period, what they need is absolutely not the conventional command and restraint, as well as simple and blunt preaching.
Every parent has the responsibility and obligation to take care of their own children. If the child is left alone, he will learn bad. The worst thing is to push the child to the society, which will cause great negative impact on the society.
