The self-consciousness of the sixth grade children is strengthened, and they want to get rid of the control of their parents. If the sixth grade children have puppy love, parents should be cautious in dealing with it, otherwise it will stimulate the children's rebellion, and make the children want to resist, which is more detrimental to the children's growth.
Is puppy love normal in grade 6
This is normal. When dealing with the problem of children's puppy love, parents must correctly judge the relationship between children and their classmates. They should not be arbitrary. After understanding the reasons, parents should communicate with children, pay attention to attitude when communicating, and calmly persuade children.
The so-called puppy love of the sixth graders is not really love, but a normal manifestation of adolescent ignorance. When the sixth graders enter this period, they have a hazy feeling for the opposite sex, which is a normal reaction, and do not over publicize it.
Many times, the parties do not know how their relationship is. Most of them made it clear that this so-called puppy love was due to the students' deliberate teasing. Then parents can unite with teachers to find ways to reduce students' attention and interest in these things.
Compared with the immature psychology of middle school students, the psychology of sixth graders is undoubtedly more immature. However, the childish psychology yearns for growing up, full of curiosity and desire for maturity. Therefore, in this contradictory state of subjective and objective development dislocation, there is an imitation of the adult world.
In fact, in primary school, children will gradually develop gender awareness and tend to play with the opposite sex. These are not all love, but may be simply good feelings, such as because someone is beautiful or has good grades.
What Should Parents Do in Grade 6 Puppy Love
If you find that your child really has the tendency of puppy love, parents should not rush to blame, but should calmly sit down and communicate with your child, telling him that his age is not suitable for love, he should focus on learning, and strive for the future. Parents should patiently guide his children to the right path step by step.
Parents should let children understand that everyone has puberty, and it is normal to have some good feelings or feelings towards the opposite sex. As long as they can treat them correctly and not affect their studies, there is nothing to fear. Communicate with children more and let them pay attention to the family. A harmonious family can give children emotional peace.
