Children in the third stage of junior high school are in the period of youth rebellion. At this stage, they are easily affected by external factors and have the idea of not going to school, such as all kinds of games, interpersonal relationships, family environment, learning pressure, etc., but no matter which kind, parents need to actively guide.
What should we do if the third graders don't want to go to school
1. Parents calm down to make a psychological communication for their children. Because the children in the third day of junior high school are tired of studying at this time not only because of their poor grades, but also because the school's daily quiz tactics make the children lose confidence in their exams. At this time, parents should never beat or scold their children or instill the truth of life into their children. Instead, they should communicate quietly to understand their children's thoughts that they really don't want to go to school.
2. We must be more tolerant and encouraging, especially when children are tired of learning and learning motivation declines due to setbacks or negative emotions. They should not criticize, attack or deny the children to deal with this matter.
Instead, we should properly contain children's negative emotions and actively encourage them to overcome setbacks and study hard. Only in this way can children feel more secure and supportive, and have stronger motivation to overcome difficulties in learning.
3. Create a good learning atmosphere for children. It is very important to give junior three students a quiet learning environment, and cultivate a good learning habit of junior three students. When communicating with children in the third year of junior high, parents should take less orders and discuss more, which is to make children feel that you respect them.
4. Establish a good family environment. Family harmony is very important for children. Parents should think about their children and create a good family environment and atmosphere for them. If children live in a warm, harmonious and loving family atmosphere, they will have no worries about learning. Moreover, a harmonious family environment can make children more confident.
5. Work closely with teachers. Tell the teacher why the child said, and ask the teacher to help verify; On the other hand, we should show our attitude to the teacher, ask the teacher to give advice, and we will actively cooperate with the teacher to educate and guide the children together.
Of course, parents can also let children participate in the process of communication with teachers, let children listen to their teachers' comments and suggestions, and let children feel the love of parents for themselves, more actively face problems, solve problems, and rekindle the desire to go to school.
The reason why the children in the third grade of junior high school don't want to go to school
1. Lack of unknown desire. If a person has expectations, hopes and pursuits for knowledge all the time, he will always be in a state of high spirits and will not be bored with learning.
2. The learning method is improper. Due to improper learning methods, although he studied hard, he had little effect. They will not learn scientifically and effectively, lack of memory based on understanding, etc., and will not feel the fun of learning naturally.
3. Lack of sense of achievement in learning. However, all junior high school students who are tired of learning have poor academic performance, and the feedback from each learning result is negative. Long term failure to get commendation or affirmation and appreciation from classmates, teachers and parents will lead to weariness of learning.
4. Poor learning foundation, no interest in learning. At ordinary times, they didn't form good study habits, didn't grasp knowledge firmly, and had poor exam results; Lose confidence in learning, resulting in weariness!
How do parents get along with their third graders
Learn to appreciate children. "No one is perfect, no one is perfect". Parents should appreciate the advantages of their children as much as possible, and try to tolerate the shortcomings. They should know that there are no perfect children in the world, and the most perfect children have their own shortcomings. Hint to yourself: I have such a lovely child. We need to grow up together. We have to face many problems together. We will live happier and more fun than others.
Parents should learn to control their emotions. In the third day of the junior year, many parents are very anxious about their children's learning problems and attitude problems. But it is useless to lose your temper in a hurry, but it will be counterproductive. Therefore, they should properly control their emotions, communicate with their children in an adult way, and respect their ideas.
