In fact, many children do not like reading and learning. Because they are young and have little experience in life, they do not understand the importance of knowledge, so they will be tired of learning when facing a learning career of more than ten years, and will escape learning.
How to deal with children who hate reading
1. Don't criticize! Don't fight! It is normal to understand that children do not love learning. When children do not love learning, parents should not only understand that it is normal for children not to love learning, but also have empathy for children. For example, when a child encounters a problem and does not want to learn, parents can say: "I also think it is very difficult, let's think of a way."
On the contrary, if children are always criticized by their parents, the amygdala of their brain will prevent them from continuing to concentrate on learning. The amygdala is the core of the emotional brain. If children always suffer from bad emotions, they do not know how to control their emotions, and the development of the rational brain will also be affected, then children's lack of concentration will easily occur.
2. Develop incentive mechanism. For many children, it is impossible to understand the necessity of learning in the current situation, so the reward mechanism is the best way to mobilize children's enthusiasm for learning. You can agree on learning goals with children in advance, and then determine the types of prizes (mainly based on children's preferences). The most important thing is to keep the promise, and when children reach the goals, they will timely cash in the rewards.
3. Let children experience the sense of achievement brought by learning. If a child who always fails cannot experience the happiness of success, he will stop working hard. First, let the child deal with some simple learning problems.
For example, find some simple questions that children can definitely do for them, praise their intelligence after doing them, and give them some material rewards when appropriate, so that children feel better. Next, slowly increase the difficulty. This is a process of "slowly cooking frogs". Parents should be patient.
4. Parents themselves are interested in learning first. Parents should often read books, magazines, learn what they are interested in, and show their love for learning to their children; Always talk about things that interest you, tell your children all kinds of new and interesting knowledge you have learned... often ask your children what new knowledge they have learned in school. Let your child feel your interest in learning, and he will be infected.
The reason why children hate reading
1. Parents expect too much, and children resist. Many parents place high hopes on their children. They are very strict with their children in family education, even beyond their ability. Once their children fail to meet their parents' expectations, they will criticize and blame them in a disappointed tone, and lack positive encouragement and affirmation for their children.
Under such an education mode for a long time, it is difficult for children to build self-confidence. They will feel that no matter how hard they try, they cannot meet the requirements of their parents, and they will gradually have a resistance to learning.
2. Children are influenced by the environment. This includes home environment and school environment. Some parents themselves prefer to play. They are disorganized and inefficient, and their children are influenced by what they see and hear. They may also procrastinate, hate learning, and have low learning efficiency.
How to make children love learning
1. Don't interfere too much in children's life. When a child is in adolescence, his self-consciousness gradually becomes stronger. He blindly interferes with the child's private life and advocates arranging the child's life. In addition to making the child feel that there is no private space, he will also have a resistance to the things arranged by his parents.
Encourage children to arrange their free time by themselves. As long as it is a combination of relaxation and relaxation, learning and rest can be arranged by children independently, which can greatly stimulate children's learning initiative and improve learning efficiency.
2. Give children more confidence. As the saying goes, you can get twice the result with half the effort if you are confident. It can be seen how important confidence is. To give children confidence, we must constantly give students correct evaluation, affirmation and encouragement, and take positive education as the main means to praise and encourage children more, so that they can have a sense of success, joy and see their own light.
