If the child's learning is not good, parents should not nag the child every day, nor compare the child with other excellent children every day. They need to encourage the child's progress in learning, not set the child's learning goals too high, but respond according to the child's actual situation, and guide the child's learning habits and methods more.
How to comfort children who are not learning well
1. First of all, we need to sit down and communicate with the children to understand their learning and examinations. Then, guide the child to carefully analyze the examination paper to find out the place and reason for failing in the exam. After careful analysis, teach children to improve their learning methods, change their examination skills, and improve their ability to learn and test.
2. Set a reasonable goal for your child's next exam. The goal should not be too high. Just make progress at the current level. If it is too high, it will frighten the child. The child will not have motivation. Tell your child that it will be great to make progress next time. Teach children to communicate more with children with good grades in the class, make friends and learn from these children. Always stay with them, follow their example and imitate their learning state and methods. The role of example cannot be ignored.
3. Understand the situation with the child's teacher. The child's performance is not good. As a parent, you should first understand the situation with the teacher. It depends on whether the child is not paying attention to the problem, or whether the child does not understand the problem, or whether the child does not study hard and is lazy. All these should be understood clearly, so that we can find corresponding solutions to solve problems.
4. Let children learn to treat failure in exams correctly. A failure in an exam does not determine our failure in life, and life is never affected by the results of the exam. As long as we do not give up and maintain an optimistic and positive attitude towards life, we will be able to broadcast another world in our life.
Too much success in life is not a good thing. Only after experiencing failure can we reflect on ourselves, find our shortcomings and shortcomings, and strive for a good result in the next exam.
What are the reasons why children don't like learning
1. Parents' education is improper and their expectations for children are too high. Teach children to read and read since they can speak, and ask them to write when they are 3 or 4 years old. Because children are overwhelmed by the pressure of "learning" too early, they have resistance to the word "learning" very early. They even refuse to go to school when they are old enough to go to school, and are unwilling to wake up in the morning.
2. Children's attention and time are attracted by other things. When the child comes home, the first time is to turn on the TV, take the remote control to switch to the channel he likes, and watch TV "attentively"; When the holiday comes, computers, tablets and mobile phones will take turns to switch.
3. Children lack role models that they like to learn from. Young children have strong imitation ability and like to imitate. Imitation is an important way for them to learn. Parents always play games, watch TV and have a rest at home, and family activities are mostly themed with "eating, drinking and having fun", lacking collective learning activities.
4. Children's emotional problems. The emotional factors of children. If you want to make children study quietly and wholeheartedly, you should not always disturb them when they study. In addition, you should maintain good relations with children. Once you meet the rebellious period of youth, you should not be too extreme, or your children's academic performance will be affected.
The child's exam is sloppy, how to help the child correct
When encouraging children to do homework at ordinary times, they should try to avoid mistakes, or train children to do examination papers without speed. To ensure the quality, they should tell children that they must do right. This repeated exercise will improve the accuracy of children.
It's very easy to be careless when taking an exam. First, give the child firm confidence, make sure he praises him, tell him to slow down when doing questions, read the questions carefully, understand the meaning of the questions, think about how to write the answers, and then answer them.
Every character and personality has its advantages and disadvantages. The most important thing is that parents should constantly find out more about the strengths and advantages of their children and focus on training them. Childhood is a very important time in life. Parents should try their best to give their children a happy and relaxed childhood.
