When children in junior high school enter adolescence, they will have rebellious psychology. Therefore, children in adolescence can only play mobile games sparsely, not blocked. Some psychological needs of children should be considered. At the same time, communication skills should be paid attention to, and good parent-child relationship should be continuously cultivated. Patience and waiting must be effective.
How to deal with junior high school children who love playing mobile games
1. Understand why children like playing games. Understand the reasons why children play mobile phones and games, and help parents understand the psychological needs that children need to meet. Some children are bored in learning and empty in heart; Some people hate learning and escape the pressure of learning; Some people make friends. Only by knowing the needs of children can we guide them correctly.
2. Don't let the child idle too much. Many parents spoil their children and don't let them do anything. However, children have no other things to do except study, so they will have a lot of free time. Children play with mobile phones as soon as they have time, which becomes a habit over time. So don't let children be too idle. Let children live a full life every day, such as letting them participate in activities and do housework, In this way, you won't form the habit of indulging in mobile phones.
3. Help children change their habits. If your child is addicted to mobile phones now, the most effective way is to change the child's habit of playing mobile phones, in other words, strictly stipulate that children should play mobile phones reasonably, for example, only one hour or half an hour a day, an hour more on weekends, and no more than one hour of playing games, Through this rule, children can get rid of the habit of playing with mobile phones for a long time every day.
4. Give children a good environment for growth. The environment can easily affect a person. For example, at home, when parents are playing with mobile phones, children will naturally play with mobile phones. Or at school, if other students have mobile phones, children will also want to have a mobile phone, so parents should give children a good environment. At home, they should not only know how to play with mobile phones, but also take care of children; In school, if the children's classmates play with mobile phones, it is recommended to change classes or transfer schools, and choose a school or class with good learning style, so that the children can not indulge in mobile phones.
What are the reasons why junior high school children like playing mobile games
1. Loneliness. Parents in many families are very busy with their work and have little time to accompany their children. Children will transfer their feelings to mobile phones and regard them as reliable partners. After a long time, it is difficult to leave mobile phones.
2. It's fun. Reading novels, playing games and watching videos are the main incentives for children to indulge in mobile phones. Mobile phones can bring children too many new and interesting things to satisfy their curiosity, so children are easily trapped in them.
3. I don't have my own interests. "It's so boring, I want to play with mobile phones" is an excuse for many children to play with mobile phones. Because I don't have my own interests and hobbies, and the spiritual world is empty, playing mobile phones becomes a pastime in my spare time.
Forcibly stop the adverse effects of children playing with mobile phones
Aggravate children's rebellious psychology. The parents' too strong coping attitude led to the children's resistance to their parents' education. The parents' forced intervention led to the children's rebellious psychology, which made it impossible to communicate with their parents smoothly, thus affecting the output and feedback of parents' educational ideas.
Make children more curious about mobile phones. Parents do not guide patiently, but simply and rudely stop, which will arouse children's greater curiosity. It is easy to have retaliatory game behavior when you have the opportunity to touch the mobile phone again. When parents' control is not enough, children are easily immersed in it.
It affects children's eyesight. According to authoritative data, when children play mobile phones continuously for more than half an hour every day, it is easy to cause visual fatigue, which is also the most direct reason for the impact on children's vision.
