The age of 14 is the adolescence stage of children's growth and development. At this stage, children's hearts are undergoing tremendous changes. For example, the sense of independence and autonomy is enhanced, which is prone to psychological fluctuations. Parents should timely understand the emotional changes of children, accompany children more, let children feel the joy of life, and avoid being dominated by negative emotions.
Psychological changes of 14-year-old girls
1.1A 14-year-old girl will gradually change her mind because of her adolescence. She will have the ability to be independent and think. She will not talk with her parents about everything when she is young, and will slowly hide her personal secrets.
2. Adolescence is a period of physical and psychological changes. Girls' hormone levels will change, leading to emotional instability and psychological fluctuations.
3. A boy who likes him will also have a liking for him. If he meets some positive friends, he will be very sunny, so the girl's heart will change greatly at this stage. Parents should pay more attention.
4. Change of self-consciousness: In adolescence, children will have a strong interest in themselves, appear very narcissistic, self-centered, and feel that they are more mature than others, but feel that they have defects, which will lead to inferiority complex. Parents should communicate with children and guide them in the right direction.
What to do if a 14-year-old girl has psychological problems
1. Let her feel the joy of life, help girls build the right emotional foundation, let them learn to face difficulties, learn to deal with their own behavior and emotions.
2. Learn to listen and listen more to the children's words: most of the children's situations are due to their estrangement from their parents and their own ideas and aspirations.
3. Understand the children's character, get along with them carefully, pay more attention to the children, understand their hearts and what the children are like, and parents should try their best to meet her various requirements, learn to listen to her heart, communicate with her more, and guide her views.
4. Properly pacify the child. When the child is out of control, he or she should be pacified in a timely manner. You can choose to hug or comfort the child, give him or her more patience, and help him or her adjust his or her emotional state.
5. Effective communication. When children lose control of their emotions, they must communicate with them in a timely manner to understand the reasons for their emotional instability, help them face problems actively and solve problems in a timely manner.
How can parents guide children who are 14-15 years old and rebellious
1. Learn to communicate with children
Many parents are in a bad mood. They only care about their own feelings and don't care about their children's feelings. Children naturally don't like to communicate with their parents, so before solving their children's problems, they should first obtain good communication with their children. Specific methods recommend parents to read more books about communication with their children.
2. Don't nag
For children's problems, parents should not nag, just talk about the key points. Children should listen if they are willing to listen, and let children bear the consequences if they are unwilling to listen.
3. Communication focuses on equality
In the communication with children, don't use an imperative tone to treat children, respect children, treat children as friends, take their opinions, and don't ignore children because they are young.
4. Don't be autocratic
Both parents feel that they are naturally superior to their children, and always like to say; I gave you all your blood and flesh. I have crossed more bridges than you have walked. Of course, you should listen to my arrangement. In fact, parents' experience is not science. Every child has a way of his own and a key to his own identity.
5. Keep the sense of boundary
The rebellious period is the stage of rapid growth of children. They are extremely eager for independence and freedom. Instead of "adding fuel to the fire", parents should open a distance, maintain a sense of boundary, give children freedom and independence, and let them go properly, instead, they can make children actively approach you and be willing to tell you.
