At the age of seven or eight, children are the most rebellious. Because they have basically entered primary school in this period, coupled with the improvement of cognitive ability, they will think that they have grown up and no longer need to be disciplined and constrained by their parents, so they will try every means to break away from their parents' constraints.
How to educate children aged 7 to 8
1. Learn to make friends equally with children. Talk to your child face to face, not from above. The reason why children are more willing to talk to their peers at this time is that they feel equal with their peers. If parents are "high above", children are unwilling to look up to you. Only when they look up, can they better communicate and find solutions to problems. Gambling with children can't solve any problems.
2. Put yourself in the other's shoes. Both parents and children should think in terms of their position and often assume that they are children. In this way, you can know a child's psychological development ideas, and the child should think from another perspective, assuming that he or she is a parent, and he or she works hard every day for family planning. The child needs to be taken care of carefully. For educating children to learn, it is better to write better words. After writing, you will know the child's psychology.
3. Cultivate children's self-confidence. During the rebellious period, children's psychology and behavior will change greatly, as well as their personality. Because at this time, the child has the ability to think independently, and will take the initiative to do things according to their own ideas. Under the correct guidance of parents, the child will become more confident.
4. Be patient enough. Parents should not only use the policy of beating and scolding to treat their children because their own mentality is not harmonious. First, they should understand the child's heart and what he needs. Just like some children who need attention, they will behave more mischievous and attract the attention of others, especially parents. At this time, parents should not only beat and scold, On the contrary, you should listen carefully when your child is talking, like treating a friend.
5. Be considerate and care for children. Rebellion period is common to everyone, and we parents have also experienced this stage. Therefore, in the face of children's rebellion, parents should understand and care for the rebellious children, and give them greater tolerance. For children's rebellious behaviors, parents should keep calm, treat them carefully, actively guide and educate them, and help them go through this life journey.
Psychological characteristics of children aged seven or eight
1. Strong desire for performance. 7. The 8-year-old child is very expressive and positive. The baby is very active both in the school class and at home, and wants to participate in any problem. At this time, parents should give positive guidance and protect the children's desire for performance, rather than blindly throwing cold water or adding too many rules to restrict the children's thinking development.
2. Start to pursue perfection. I will ponder over one thing and hope to do the best I think. Children of seven or eight years old have their own understanding of perfection. They want to do their best whether doing homework or playing games. They will think over and over again about how to write a word beautifully. If parents can grasp their children's mentality of pursuing perfection, it is easy to cultivate their children's good learning habits.
What parents need to do when disciplining children aged seven or eight
Learn more and accompany more. When children make mistakes, don't immediately blame or scold them. Instead, we should understand why children do this? Bend down and listen to their voices. When children are bullied, left out or feel uneasy, parents should put aside their busy hands to accompany their children and spend their "little difficulties" with them.
Be a good example. 7. Eight year old children can learn very quickly. Therefore, as an elder, we should set a good example for our children. For example, do not throw garbage, concentrate on doing everything, love reading, hard work and courage, and so on. These are very meaningful things within our ability. In this way, children will also develop good habits of concentration, fame, love reading, civilization and politeness.