Due to the uneven family education received by children, some children like to take others' pain points as interesting things to talk about on campus, even ridicule them. In the face of others' ridicule, if parents' education methods are appropriate, children will grow up healthily.
What to do when children are insulted by classmates at school
1. First, talk to your child. Parents should help their children deal with the relationship with their classmates correctly and teach them to face different classmates in different ways. Behaviour is an important ability that parents should teach their children. Only by doing this well, can he be more comfortable in interpersonal communication, so that children will not be scolded by classmates.
2. Build confidence and increase the sense of hope. In the face of depressed and frustrated children, it is very important for parents to give their children a sense of hope, give them instant sexual psychological satisfaction, and let them feel that their mother can not only understand him, but also help him. The child's mood may have changed from just grievance, sadness, sadness and anger to surprise and expectation. Different emotions lead to different information.
3. Carry out anti bullying education for children as soon as possible to strengthen their body and mind. The child has no anti bullying awareness, which is definitely not good. Some children do not understand that they have been bullied when they are ridiculed or abused. Therefore, parents should carry out anti bullying education for children as early as possible. For example, when children are 2 to 8 years old, they can interpret such bullying behaviors that are easy to happen around children through picture book stories.
4. Teach children how to deal with it. It is impossible for parents to stay with their children all the time. When a child suffers from verbal insult for the first time, parents should tell him what to do when he encounters verbal insult again. Let the children not swallow their pride and bear it all by themselves. They should not shrink back from this situation. When they are unable to solve it, they should tell their parents or teachers in time.
5. Guide children to expand their circle of friends. Parents should help their children develop their interests and hobbies to improve their popularity. Parents can also encourage children to invite children to play at home and expand their circle of friends. When the child has many friends, others dare not bully him. Even if someone bullies him, his friends will intervene and stop him in time.
Why do children insult
1. About self-expression. Children's mental development in childhood is not yet mature, and their right and wrong judgments about things are also very vague. They can't distinguish between beauty and ugliness, so they often have some impulsive behaviors, and think that successfully bullying others is a sign of self strength.
2. Wrong way of communication. Maybe in the eyes of some children, bullying others can help them prove that they are strong, which also gives them a sense of tame pleasure. They think that they can quickly become friends with others. However, after experiencing it, you may find that this way can not win the favor of others. As you grow up, you may give up this way and use another mode to communicate with people around you.
How to deal with parents when children are insulted by words
1. Pay more attention to children's mental health. In terms of interpersonal relationships, children have a playful nature and are very fond of making friends. If parents fail to give correct guidance in this process, it may lead to a wrong situation.
2. Encourage more and blame less. When many children are bullied at school, they may choose silence because of timidity. At this time, parents must not blame them, but should encourage them to increase confidence and courage, and stimulate children's ability to accept challenges.
Parents must base their education on love, and don't let campus bullying become the shadow of children's hearts. Through words, children's fear and timidity in the face of bullying can be alleviated, and they can also calmly face their hearts and become a brave child.
