What does it mean that people hold people high and people trample on people low
People praise others highly, while people trample on others lowly means that you praise others well, and at the same time, you improve your own image and status; When you demean others, your image and status will be reduced accordingly.
Comprehension method - break this sentence into: people step on people, people are low; People praise people, people are high.
Extended data:
The disciple asked: Master, you sometimes hit and curse people, and sometimes you are polite to people. Is there any mystery in this? Shifu said: "Treat the superior directly to the people's hearts, you can beat or scold them, and treat them with true eyes;"; When dealing with the middle class, he is most metaphorical. He should be careful. He can't stand beating and scolding; To treat the lower class, you should smile and put your hands together. He is very fragile and small minded, and only uses secular etiquette to treat him.
Is it an idiom to step high and hold low?
There is no idiom "step on high and hold low".
Multi character and graphic symbol input method (multi character code) has 90000 words, of which there is no idiom or vocabulary as described in the question.
Literally, it means "to step down when high; to hold up when low".
Mentality of people who step on high and hold low
Everyone likes a smooth life, like a smooth life, like birds flying freely, like fish swimming freely. But the ideal of fullness is doomed to be battered by the bone reality. Most people live through the ups and downs of life, with both the joy of success and the loss of failure.
There is no shortage of ignorant visitors in the world. Seeing that you are at the lowest point of life, rumors and rumors come. There are those who criticize and satirize in person; Some people talk behind their backs and become laughable; There are slanders and people who fall into the trap.
Nowadays, there are many people who worship high and trample low.
In fact, paying homage to the high is nothing. In order to survive, it is not impossible to take the initiative to curry favor with people who are useful to you and make your life better. In a humane society, as long as it does not affect or hurt others, it is also a way of survival to pay a little effort to please and ingratiate with others and get the results you want.
Just to ingratiate and please others, we should also pay attention to a little level. What we need to do is naturally, that is, to ingratiate is comfortable, to achieve our own goals, and not to be too deliberate.
But in reality, these people have little patience to cover up their own behavior, and they can't care whether their behavior is decent or not. When they see people with money and power, they will be exposed and make people feel uncomfortable.
Of course, for these people, it is nothing to make people feel uncomfortable. As long as they can achieve their own goals, the rest are farts.
What is more puzzling is that even if these people try to curry favor with those rich people, they will not give him some money, or invite him to have a meal, or lend him some money when he needs it. However, he is still willing to brazenly curry favor. This is incredible.
This kind of person likes to worship high and flatter people with money and power. He likes this and doesn't feel that the price is lower, nor does it hinder others. However, such people not only like to worship high, but also like to trample down and disparage people who are equal to or inferior to themselves.
This reveals the true nature of such people, the nature of villains.
The villain is good at worshipping the high and stepping on the low. They fawn on the rich and powerful; Bullying honest people, kind people, useless people. In front of the former, please and be careful, for fear that flattery will not be enough; In front of the latter, he exposed a domineering, insolent and shameless face, and wanted to ride on others to shit and urinate.
In life, such villains are everywhere, and they are aggressive. If you don't provoke them, they still want to bully you. Serious people have no time and energy to fight with such people. The best way is to avoid them.
If you can't avoid it, don't be polite to such villains. This kind of villain looks very arrogant on the surface, but in fact, they are weak and afraid of evil. They are more afraid of people who are stronger than themselves. When you show a strong and inviolable appearance, such people will be in awe of you.
What does it mean that people lift people high and people step on people low?
Zeng Guofan once said, "People carry people priceless treasure, water carries people ten thousand feet high".
People raise people high, and everyone praises you, so you will naturally be high; If everyone steps on you, you will never be tall.
Only by paving roads and building bridges with each other can we be better.
My friend complained to me that one of her colleagues always likes to tear down the table.
Once, a friend was introducing a new product to an old customer.
The colleague curled his mouth and said, "OK, let's start blowing again. I just learned a little fur this morning, and now I start to show off."
The friend was extremely embarrassed in an instant, and was not easy to attack in front of the customer. He was almost ready to cry.
Seeing her friend angry, I really felt that her colleague was very annoying.
On second thought, there are many such people in life. They seem to have no intention, but they always make people feel guilty.
A newcomer to our company is also an "expert" in dismantling the platform, and the dismantling is always "just in time".
The boss praised others for their hard work. She said that working overtime only showed low ability.
The boss praised others for their high efficiency. She said it might be that they are not saturated with work.
Such a person is willing to speak out and act as a shield. In fact, his EQ is low.
It is conceivable that other people in the company have to avoid this sister and stay away from her for fear of stepping on the thunder.
A writer said:
"The kindness and mutual promotion between people is actually a kind of empathy and respect for human dignity.
Because you respect others, others will treat you kindly; If you appreciate others, they will expect you; If you help others, they will give you opportunities.
You respect and appreciate others. It is an encouragement to others, so others will praise and recognize you and make you feel valuable.
On the contrary, if you don't let others live well, others can't let you live happily. "
So the old man said that the people in the flower sedan chair carried people.
It is not mutual wrapping, fooling, sheltering, whitewashing and endless accommodation that people hold people high, but sincere exchange of feelings, tear off the false side and treat each other frankly.
In addition to the workplace, in marriage, if the husband and wife do not know how to carry others, family life will become a disaster; If you know this "secret script", marriage and love will be more fresh.
I have a married girlfriend. My family is not rich, but I have enough food and clothing. People are virtuous, but they have a problem. They are vain and like to buy A-brand handbags.
One day at a friend's party, his girlfriend's new LV handbag was highly praised during the dinner, and her girlfriend also smiled like a spring breeze.
At this time, the husband sitting next to his girlfriend couldn't help but tell everyone, "What, she is a fake, hundreds of dollars, fake goods bought in Xiushui Street."
My girlfriend cried on the spot.
The girlfriend is naturally a little vain, and the vanity is not high grade, but in the final analysis, it is also to give her husband a face, although the method is not appropriate.
But who is perfect? Why should couples make each other so embarrassed in front of outsiders?
For this husband, he did not reflect on his limited ability, but embarrassed his wife in front of everyone. I don't know whether he hit his wife's face or his own face.
People step on people, people get down. Never put yourself up in a way that belittles others. That's putting yourself in the most disgusting position.
In the Republic of China era, there was a couple who respected each other, achieved each other in marriage, and enjoyed happiness for 70 years, which was enviable.
They are Zhou Youguang, the father of Chinese Pinyin, and Zhang Yunhe, the second daughter of the Zhang family in Hefei.
The four sisters of the Zhang family are very famous, not only in China, but also in foreign countries. Ye Shengtao, a famous educator in China, once said, "The four talented women of the Zhang family in Jiuruxiang, whoever marries them will be happy for life."
Before getting married, Zhou Youguang wrote to Zhang Yunhe, "I'm very poor, I'm afraid I can't give you happiness."
Zhang Yunhe replied to a 10 page letter with only one meaning: Happiness is not what you give me, but what you want to create.
For a man, it takes a lot of courage to speak out his dilemma in front of his beloved. For a woman, it takes a lot of wisdom to give a man the greatest face preservation.
When Zhou Youguang studied in Japan, Zhang Yunhe accompanied him without saying a word and offered his dowry support.
It was Zhang Yunhe's support that made "the father of Chinese Pinyin".
This is the reason why people carry great people and monks carry eminent monks.
Like many couples, they both have their own interests, but not the same.
Zhang Yunhe likes Chinese classical music and Kunqu Opera, while Zhou Youguang likes western music.
So Zhang Yun happily accompanied her husband to the concert, and Zhou Youguang happily accompanied Zhang Yunhe to the Kunqu Opera Research Club. It is very sweet to go out in pairs.
This kind of husband and wife who can help each other is really enviable, because they know how to achieve each other.
It also shows recognition and respect for each other in all aspects. In an environment full of love and respect, how can marriage not remain young forever?
People who know how to lift others are very confident.
He respects others and will respect himself; He appreciates others, but also knows how to appreciate himself.
People at this level cherish the value of others as well as their own.
They will not use their words and deeds of ridicule and humiliation to attack others, to obliterate the value of others, and will not give up their own value because of the ridicule of others. Zeng Guofan once said, "People carry people priceless treasure, water carries people ten thousand feet high".
People raise people high, and everyone praises you, so you will naturally be high; If everyone steps on you, you will never be tall.
Only by paving roads and building bridges with each other can we be better.
My friend complained to me that one of her colleagues always likes to tear down the table.
Once, a friend was introducing a new product to an old customer.
The colleague curled his mouth and said, "OK, let's start blowing again. I just learned a little fur this morning, and now I start to show off."
The friend was extremely embarrassed in an instant, and was not easy to attack in front of the customer. He was almost ready to cry.
Seeing her friend angry, I really felt that her colleague was very annoying.
On second thought, there are many such people in life. They seem to have no intention, but they always make people feel guilty.
A newcomer to our company is also an "expert" in dismantling the platform, and the dismantling is always "just in time".
The boss praised others for their hard work. She said that working overtime only showed low ability.
The boss praised others for their high efficiency. She said it might be that they are not saturated with work.
Such a person is willing to speak out and act as a shield. In fact, his EQ is low.
It is conceivable that other people in the company have to avoid this sister and stay away from her for fear of stepping on the thunder.
A writer said:
"The kindness and mutual promotion between people is actually a kind of empathy and respect for human dignity.
Because you respect others, others will treat you kindly; If you appreciate others, they will expect you; If you help others, they will give you opportunities.
You respect and appreciate others. It is an encouragement to others, so others will praise and recognize you and make you feel valuable.
On the contrary, if you don't let others live well, others can't let you live happily. "
So the old man said that the people in the flower sedan chair carried people.
It is not mutual wrapping, fooling, sheltering, whitewashing and endless accommodation that people hold people high, but sincere exchange of feelings, tear off the false side and treat each other frankly.
In addition to the workplace, in marriage, if the husband and wife do not know how to carry others, family life will become a disaster; If you know this "secret script", marriage and love will be more fresh.
I have a married girlfriend. My family is not rich, but I have enough food and clothing. People are virtuous, but they have a problem. They are vain and like to buy A-brand handbags.
One day at a friend's party, his girlfriend's new LV handbag was highly praised during the dinner, and her girlfriend also smiled like a spring breeze.
At this time, the husband sitting next to his girlfriend couldn't help but tell everyone, "What, she is a fake, hundreds of dollars, fake goods bought in Xiushui Street."
My girlfriend cried on the spot.
The girlfriend is naturally a little vain, and the vanity is not high grade, but in the final analysis, it is also to give her husband a face, although the method is not appropriate.
But who is perfect? Why should couples make each other so embarrassed in front of outsiders?
For this husband, he did not reflect on his limited ability, but embarrassed his wife in front of everyone. I don't know whether he hit his wife's face or his own face.
People step on people, people get down. Never put yourself up in a way that belittles others. That's putting yourself in the most disgusting position.
In the Republic of China era, there was a couple who respected each other, achieved each other in marriage, and enjoyed happiness for 70 years, which was enviable.
They are Zhou Youguang, the father of Chinese Pinyin, and Zhang Yunhe, the second daughter of the Zhang family in Hefei.
The four sisters of the Zhang family are very famous, not only in China, but also in foreign countries. Ye Shengtao, a famous educator in China, once said, "The four talented women of the Zhang family in Jiuruxiang, whoever marries them will be happy for life."
Before getting married, Zhou Youguang wrote to Zhang Yunhe, "I'm very poor, I'm afraid I can't give you happiness."
Zhang Yunhe replied to a 10 page letter with only one meaning: Happiness is not what you give me, but what you want to create.
For a man, it takes a lot of courage to speak out his dilemma in front of his beloved. For a woman, it takes a lot of wisdom to give a man the greatest face preservation.
When Zhou Youguang studied in Japan, Zhang Yunhe accompanied him without saying a word and offered his dowry support.
It was Zhang Yunhe's support that made "the father of Chinese Pinyin".
This is the reason why people carry great people and monks carry eminent monks.
Like many couples, they both have their own interests, but not the same.
Zhang Yunhe likes Chinese classical music and Kunqu Opera, while Zhou Youguang likes western music.
So Zhang Yun happily accompanied her husband to the concert, and Zhou Youguang happily accompanied Zhang Yunhe to the Kunqu Opera Research Club. It is very sweet to go out in pairs.
This kind of husband and wife who can help each other is really enviable, because they know how to achieve each other.
It also shows recognition and respect for each other in all aspects. In an environment full of love and respect, how can marriage not remain young forever?
People who know how to lift others are very confident.
He respects others and will respect himself; He appreciates others, but also knows how to appreciate himself.
People at this level cherish the value of others as well as their own.
They will not use their words and deeds of ridicule and humiliation to attack others, to obliterate the value of others, and will not give up their own value because of the ridicule of others.
