If the son doesn't study, as a parent, don't be anxious or yell at the child. Don't be so strict about the child's learning, and give the child room for free development. Otherwise, the child will feel depressed and want to escape from the current situation, and then show weariness. Parents should pay attention to it.
What to do if my son doesn't learn
1. When children don't like learning, parents should first communicate with their children. Under normal circumstances, although children will not have much interest in learning, they will not dislike learning. Therefore, when children do not love learning, parents must find the reason.
To achieve this goal, it is necessary to communicate with children. Only in this way can we understand their thoughts and prepare for further response.
2. Parents should help children realize their own situation, so as to realize the importance of learning. When parents and children have established communication channels, they should help children to re understand themselves, focus on the analysis of their own environment, so that children can understand their current situation, and then have a deeper understanding of the importance of learning. When parents guide their children to this state, they can carry out more effective education.
3. Eliminate children's pressure on learning. Some children may feel pressured by overemphasizing their academic achievements. They may think that they cannot meet their parents' requirements, or they may feel unhappy when compared with their peers. At this time, parents can consider taking the following measures:
1) Don't emphasize children's academic achievements, but focus on their learning interests and abilities;
2) Avoid comparing children with other peers, but help them find their own advantages and expertise;
3) Encourage children to participate in some interesting activities that do not involve school courses, such as sports, literature and art, and social activities.
4. Improve learning efficiency and quality. Some children don't like learning, perhaps because they can't feel the pleasure of success from learning. If children can achieve good results and results in learning, it will be easier for them to remain interested in learning. At this time, parents can consider taking the following measures:
1) Help children develop clear learning goals and plans, so that they know what they need to do and how to do well;
2) Provide targeted guidance and guidance for children so that they can complete learning tasks efficiently;
3) Praise and encourage children's learning achievements, and let them feel that learning is a valuable and meaningful thing.
My son only knows how to play with his mobile phone and doesn't write his homework. What should I do
1. Create a quiet family learning atmosphere. To make children study in peace, parents should first settle down. When children study at home, parents may want to read books, newspapers, or do some appropriate housework that does not affect children's learning. Don't make too much noise or interest children. Some parents do not understand their children's characteristics, and sometimes run around in their children's homework room, busy doing things, or doing something that interests their children, such as watching TV, playing computer, playing cards, etc.
2. Parents should set an example. Parents are role models for their children. Parents should set a good image in front of their children and should not play with mobile phones at home. If parents play mobile games at home, they will undoubtedly attract children to watch and arouse their attention and curiosity, and children will naturally imitate and learn from their parents.
How should parents deal with their son's poor exam
1. Cultivate children's concentration and self-discipline from an early age. If you want to cultivate children with high IQ, you should cultivate children's concentration and self-discipline in learning from an early age. The high IQ Xueba has never been played out. If you observe carefully, you will find that they are very focused when learning and will be strict with themselves. This is why Xueba has high efficiency and good performance. It is not because of their high IQ, but because they have developed good learning habits since childhood.
2. Give lost children a warm space. We should not over criticize the children who failed the exam, give them a little tolerance, and stimulate their fighting spirit to start again. Therefore, we should encourage the children who failed to walk out of the shadow area as soon as possible. We hope that parents can calm down when facing this situation, help children analyze the reasons, and find solutions.