If parents encounter the situation of beating the elders, they must not be angry, and do not point to the children. They must learn to find out the reasons according to the situation, take the correct measures to guide the children, do not let the children develop, teach the children to be grateful and respect the elders.
What if the child starts to beat the elder
1. Analyze the reasons for the child beating. When children grow up, their self-awareness will begin to sprout, and they will fight against others if they encounter something undesirable. Therefore, in such a situation, parents should analyze the reasons for their children's beating and further come up with corresponding methods.
2. Parents set an example for their children. Some children will hit others. Because their parents have hit behaviors, children will imitate their parents' behaviors when they see them. Therefore, when children can hit others, parents should review themselves to see if they have the habit of hitting others.
Teach children how to express their feelings. Children will encounter certain troubles, so it is necessary to vent their troubles and anger. Therefore, parents can guide their children to confide their inner feelings to adults, listen to their children's feelings patiently, and release their unhappy and repressed feelings at that time.
3. When children hit their parents, they should be educated correctly even if it is unconscious. Let the child know that it is wrong to hit someone with hands, and can fight back appropriately to let the child know what discomfort this will bring to the body.
In normal times, we should communicate more with children, reason with them, and let them know how to correctly vent their negative emotions when they appear. Let the child know what the consequences will be after the beating, so that the child can deepen his memory.
4. Stop it in time to let children know that this is not the right behavior. Children must be made aware of the serious consequences of this behavior, and do not let children subconsciously think that hitting others is a normal thing. I told other adults at home that if children behave like this to them, they should be educated in time. Do not take the small good, do not take the small.
How to educate adolescent children who do not respect their elders
1. Parents should learn to respect and trust their children. Adolescent children have undergone great changes in psychology and physiology. Children are eager to be recognized by the adult world, and to declare that they have grown up to the world through rebellious behavior. At this time, what parents need to do is to support, affirm, trust the child, and deal with the relationship with the child, so that the child can speak to their parents.
2. Parents should change their own way of education. When parents get along with adolescent children, they should never play hardball with them. First of all, parents should change their own way of education and give encouragement to their children where they do well.
3. It is necessary to establish the awareness that children should respect themselves, let them know that parents' concern for them is not "taken for granted", and change the way of education for children in the past. Children's unreasonable demands should be rejected. When children show no respect for themselves, they should point out their mistakes.
How to educate children who beat and scold their parents
1. Parents should be clear about their own reasons and whether they have bad habits. For example, some parents are very strict with their children's education and require them to be civilized and polite, but they do not play a role model. They like to say rude words and laziness, which will have a potential impact on children, and children will gradually learn from their parents' bad examples.
2. When asking your child to do something, you must ask for his or her advice. Don't let your children do what parents think they should do. Over time, children will naturally have rebellious psychology and resistance. If the child raises an objection, the parents should explore the reason why you should not do it.
3. We should give the child proper guidance and tell him what he should do? What responsibilities should mothers take for their children?
In this way, he will understand the reason and won't beat and scold his mother. Therefore, your education is not deep enough, and you don't hate him and guide him correctly. Therefore, children like him, mothers and parents should bear certain responsibilities.
