As long as the child's academic performance is about the same, it will be better if he grows up slowly. Don't force him to communicate with him, be friends, and then reason with him. Don't just force him to learn.
How to deal with boys who don't like learning
1. As a parent, you can't demand too much from your child at once. Don't demand the child on the score first. You can start with emphasizing the learning attitude. If the child is unwilling to accept tutoring, you can suggest that the child invite the students with good grades to come home to do homework. On the one hand, it can cultivate the child's good habit of learning; on the other hand, it can let the students with good grades help the child solve difficult problems, overcome the fear of difficulties in learning, and let the child gradually transition to learning by himself.
2. The rebellious child should learn to trust him, the pressure of life, the pressure of school learning, and the pressure of parents on the child. For the child, he does not understand or understand many aspects. At this time, he should fully trust him, and after understanding and trust, he can respect his parents, respect his teachers, and be interested in learning, rather than blindly blaming the child.
3. Use your brain properly. The so-called rationality is that first, we should review courses of different nature alternately, such as the intersection of arts and science, history and geography, which can make different parts of the cerebral cortex excited and inhibited in turn, which is conducive to the enhancement and development of memory ability; The second is to remember at the best time. Generally, it should be arranged in the morning and at night before going to bed, depending on the peak of your memory.
4. Learn to integrate knowledge points. Classify the information to be learned and the knowledge to be mastered and make it into a mind map or knowledge point card, which will make your brain and thinking clear and convenient for memory, review and mastery. At the same time, learn to connect new knowledge with learned knowledge, and constantly blend and improve your knowledge system. This can promote understanding and deepen memory.
How to let children form a good habit of independent learning
1. Parents should set an example. Parents, as the most important people around their children, naturally have the greatest impact on their children. If parents themselves are people who have a sense of time, love sports, love learning, love reading, work hard, and have self-discipline, children can easily have these excellent habits under the influence of others.
2. Family rules. Parents should negotiate with their children as soon as possible to formulate reasonable rules of conduct to "constrain" their children's behavior and help them form good habits.
3. Cultivate children's ability of self motivation. Ask children to find their favorite subjects or tasks, and help them develop their own interests and learning interests.
4. Establish a learning environment suitable for children. Provide children with an environment suitable for learning, such as a quiet learning place, comfortable seats, bright rooms, etc.
5. Develop children's learning methods and skills. Teach children learning skills, such as memory, understanding, classification and other methods, to help them better master the learning content.
How to coach junior high school children to improve their grades
1. It is very important for children in junior high school to adjust their learning attitude. It can not only help them have a clear mind to think about problems, but also help them eat well and sleep well, so that they can lay a good physical and psychological foundation for coping with heavy study in the future.
2. To cultivate children's awareness of autonomous learning, parents should focus on cultivating children's awareness of autonomous learning. Autonomous learning is also self active learning. In learning, only when children learn actively themselves can they truly change from passive learning to active learning. There are many benefits of active learning. When encountering problems, it can enable children to think independently and improve their ability to analyze and solve problems. It also allows children to actively explore, explore the use of knowledge, and learn to draw inferences from one instance and understand by analogy.
3. If you want to improve your children's academic performance, you must cultivate their interest in learning and independent learning ability. Do not interfere too much with your children, which will cause them to be rebellious.
4. Children's learning depends on themselves. Parents can't take the place of children to learn. We can't do much. Sometimes we can't help much. We should trust children, encourage them to learn actively, let them learn consciously, and develop good learning habits.
In junior high school, parents mainly provide good service and proper supervision, and more importantly, let children work hard. In class, they should listen carefully, complete the homework assigned by teachers in time, learn to learn, be good at thinking, form their own learning methods, and communicate with teachers and classmates more.