"Books are the ladder of human progress". More and more parents realize the importance of reading, but the situation of children's reading is not optimistic. Many children can read other books in addition to textbooks. How can parents guide them to stimulate children's interest in reading?
How to deal with students who don't like reading
1. Buy more different kinds of books for children. Why buy more books of different types for children? It is mainly to discover children's interests. As the saying goes: interest is the best teacher! Many parents say that their children don't like reading. In fact, this may be just an illusion. The truth is that you don't understand their interests.
2. Choose the books your child really likes. Don't be too utilitarian in reading. What kind of extracurricular reading books are recommended in the new curriculum? Children may not be interested in these books. Interest is the power of reading. If a child is not interested in a book and there are many new words in it, why should he ask for trouble? So buy children books they really like to read.
3. Parents and children read together. "It's a tragedy of education that people who want their children to read don't read!" So parents can also read by themselves if they can, and it would be better to have some communication and sharing with children. It's not good to force parents to do this, but if you find that you really don't want to read, can't read, and don't have time to read, I think you can easily understand why children don't like reading, right?
The reason why students don't like reading
1. Stories are not vivid and distracting. Children are very sensitive to outside things. He can feel that parents just tell stories to their children perfunctorily instead of telling stories to their children sincerely. Before the eighth grade, children's listening is better than reading. It was not until the eighth grade that the two reached a balance.
So parents should not be perfunctory when telling children stories. Through listening to parents' stories, children's reading ability gradually improves. In the process of children's growth, no matter what they are talking about, continuous chatting with children will help improve their language expression ability and thinking ability.
2. Pursue utilitarianism. Many parents always ask their children to tell the meaning of the story after reading it. In fact, for children, they can only understand the general idea of the story, but do not know the depth of the story. In fact, sometimes parents don't understand the meaning of the story, let alone the children?
So the most important thing is to let children enjoy reading and let them experience the fun of reading. Too eager for quick success and instant benefit may have negative effects. Don't let children recite those long speeches, but let children read happily.
3. Mandatory reading. Most of the time, parents buy a lot of books, but children don't actually read, so some parents become impatient and force their children to read. A child who does not know what a book is will not read and will not enjoy reading. Parents should let children continue to read and show their interest in books in vivid language.
In fact, those children who like reading begin to touch books after a few months, and even regard books as their toys. Unconsciously, they experienced the fun from the book. Then I began to imperceptibly like reading.
4. Pursue quantity. Parents begin to buy many books in order to let children form the habit of reading, but in fact, such behavior will leave a wrong impression on children: books are just decorations bought by parents. In fact, children like to listen to stories repeatedly, because they can deepen their impression of the story, then continue to absorb the knowledge in the story, and then begin to understand it.
How to Improve Children's Reading Interest
1. Capture children's interest in reading. How did interest come into being? Interest is that people encounter some elements in life because of some chance, and naturally become interested in some things. In daily life, how to observe a child's interest from some subtle observations?
First of all, after seeing cartoons such as Mickey Mouse, Donald Duck and Winnie the Pooh, the child took him to the bookstore. He easily accepted books with this animated image, which was a way. Secondly, take your child to parks, libraries, museums, and various exhibitions. After you go to these places, you can find his interest points through his observation of these things, and then you can buy books.
2. Give children the right to choose reading materials. Children are interested in reading only when they have the right to choose their own books. Choosing what to read and what to buy is a very important way for children to fall in love with reading. As for the bad choice, what should we do? What about choosing only one category? Don't worry too much about these problems. They are more important than these doubts and love reading.
3. Return reading dominance. The child can eat by himself from about eight months ago. At this time, we should take advantage of the situation and give the child the responsibility to eat by himself. Reading is also the same. To cultivate children's ability to read independently from an early age, we should return the dominance of reading to children.
These dominant rights are: the right not to read, the right to skip the page to read; The right not to read the whole book and read it repeatedly; The right to read and immerse yourself in the book; The right to read and roughly read anywhere; The right to read aloud and not defend your taste. These contents are the rights that a mature reader should have. We should give children these reading rights from childhood, then they will soon become a mature reader.
