When a child enters high school, he or she enters the most important stage in his or her learning career. At this stage, children are most likely to have psychological problems, such as school weariness. Parents should communicate with children more, try to meet some of their requirements, provide children with a relaxed learning environment, and reduce their psychological burden.
What to do if the child doesn't adapt to high school and wants to transfer
1. Reasonable communication: parents should be honest with their children to understand their current emotions and thoughts, help them distinguish their thoughts and doubts, provide support and encouragement, and help them deal with psychological pressure.
2. Improve the environment: The family environment is also very important. Parents should pay attention to their children's feelings and needs, give them good support and warmth, respect their children's choices, and do not interfere too much or force their children to make decisions.
3. Provide emotional support and psychological assistance to children. The first year of senior high school is a critical period in the growth of students. They are in the conflict stage of adolescence, and their emotions fluctuate greatly. When children feel depressed and helpless, their families and schools should give them care and comfort and provide emotional support.
4. Guide children to adjust their mentality and establish correct learning concepts. In the face of academic pressure, we can not escape or deny, but learn to face up to and deal with it. Parents and teachers should guide children to establish correct learning concepts, and tell them that only through hard work and dedication can they make progress.
How to deal with high school children who are too emotional
1. Provide support and understanding: The learning pressure in the third stage of senior high school is high, so parents should give their children care, understanding and support, listen to their emotional expression patiently, and avoid too much blame or reprimand.
2. Set reasonable goals: help children set achievable goals and break them down into small goals, which can increase their confidence and motivation. At the same time, we should also pay attention to helping them adjust their high expectations.
3. Provide a positive learning environment: create a quiet, clean and orderly learning environment to reduce the interference of family disputes and noise on children's learning.
4. Encourage rest and relaxation: learning pressure is high, and time arrangement is very important. Provide enough rest time for children, and encourage them to actively participate in sports, listen to music, communicate with friends and other relaxation methods.
5. Cultivate a positive attitude: parents can help children look at problems from a positive perspective, teach them the ability to self motivate and adjust their emotions, cultivate a positive attitude, and face challenges and difficulties.
How to dredge the psychology of high school children who are tired of learning
1. Communicate with children in a peaceful attitude. Guide children to relax, accept problems, have an objective and realistic evaluation of themselves, find hope and motivation, and then rebuild confidence. The weariness of learning will be reduced.
2. You should read more newspapers, magazines and professional books on family education to improve your education level, shorten the distance between you and your children, and help resolve their weariness of school.
3. In addition to encouraging children, help them set goals of self motivation and encourage them to do so regularly. Let children learn to suggest themselves, get rid of negative emotions, and avoid school weariness.
4. Let children position themselves reasonably. Don't let children overestimate themselves, because every time they fail to reach their goals, they are hit, and every day they are hit is a factor of school weariness. At the same time, parents
5. Parents and children work together. Let children know that they are not studying alone, and there are supporters behind them.